Hello and glad annoyances!

WHAT I’M LOOKING FOR RE THIS DYNAMIC:

I’m at that point where I want a solid dynamic in my sexual life. So I’m posting on Reddit, again, since that’s my best chance of finding someone! I will want to get to know you in general before we dive into the dynamic.

I seem to do best with Doms who are a mix of brat handlers/enablers (those who will egg me on and encourage the behavior) and Daddy/Mommy (who will punish me for such behavior, but do so with a disciplined, firm, but just hand). Kinda like it when Doms get serious about punishment, makes me wanna giggle though. So if you’re looking for a sweet sub, ha, look the other way! I’d expect this dynamic to be mainly confined to the bedroom/events/parties/etc. I don’t expect it to spill into regular life much. If it does, I expect it to be more me being a little shit and seeing what buttons I can push and how I can maliciously comply, then you keeping a tally of my transgressions. Somewhere in that arena with flexibility for more depending on our agreement. How delicious!

I’m hoping for long term. Long term allows us to get to know each other well and to build that intimacy and trust. I’ll feel safer with you and you’ll have a better idea of what I’m like. I’d also like to be able to have some vanilla hangout time with each other too. Plus, it’s harder for me to get turned on and finish when there isn’t someone I’m familiar with involved.

It doesn’t need to be exclusive, but I still want to feel intimate. Which, yay for ENM/polyamory, because that makes it possible! So I don’t mind if you have a partner. Because I certainly do seek out other partners, so I’m obviously not going to be hypocritical. However I would like for there to be a level of connection and intimacy. I understand if I’ll come secondary to a partner but you should still treat me with respect and give me some time. Don’t treat me like a used tissue is what I’m saying. I don’t expect to have your attention 24/7 because hey, we’re adults, we got jobs and responsibilities (ew). But I always appreciate a heads up if you’re going to absent for a few days or more. I am open to dating, but I prefer to start here in getting to know you and playing while considering that. I don’t like to push things and rather let them develop naturally.

My taste in Daddies seems to be white and lanky/leaner than me. Added bonuses I’ve commonly found are: blonde with light eyes, tattoos, piercings, and former/currently military. With Mommies there’s no common factors. Love it when a Dom is queer which makes group play so much easier! That’s a huge plus and will catch my attention.

ABOUT ME:

Physically, I’m 5’3, curvy fosho, Middle Eastern (so tan, brown hair and eyes), with several tattoos. Been told I look innocent and that people wouldn’t expect me to be the dirty slut that I am, HA!

I’m childfree, a leftist, chaotic good/neutral, and enjoy the outdoors. You’ll usually find me playing TTRPGs and video games on the weekend, in addition to taking a morning swim (my tan line is bad haha). I like to allow my creative and gremlin sides to flourish on the weekend since my day job is being a law clerk (not what you’d expect from a brat? Or maybe it is. Who knows!). I’m working on practicing piano more and reading my physical books and on my Kindle. If you’re able to teach me to crochet and play ukulele, that’s GREAT!

IF YOU’RE INTERESTED:

Send me your age, location, and what experience you have. Let me know your comfort level with group play and going to parties/events (because chances are if things go well, I’ll want you along for those). Any personal non-kink info is desired and will earn you arbitrary internet points. Please be able to host, I unfortunately live with family. High preference given to those in Orange County. SFW photos of yourself too, and I’ll be sure to send SFW photos of myself too when I reply. Use the chat function. Once I accept your chat, I will want to verify so we don’t have to worry.

Toodalooo!