Who am I?

Wall Street guy? Backpacking hipster vagabond? Classic Heartlands americana? All of the above. I’ve spent nearly the past ten years now working hard to carve out a niche in life that makes me happy. I work a killer job doing exactly what I want that happens to be fully remote, travel the world as a hobby (pics of that pinned on my profile), have a great friend group of likeminded and equally interesting people, and always have what I think are neat side projects cooking on all four burners. I’d highlight that travel portion because it’s my biggest passion; I adore that feeling of being absolutely lost/bewildered and that’s when I’m at my best.

Outside of that, I’m a voracious reader, a huge snob about coffee, love fine dining when I have a 1, listen to way too much indie music, love hiking/being outside, and can yap infinitely on any topic. My personality has been described as warm, likeable, confident, ambitious, driven, spontaneous, and humorous.

What am I like as a partner?

As a boyfriend, I’m determined to be the type of guy both you and your parents like. I value communication and transparency, can always make time for you, love texting throughout the day, enjoy voice and video chats, and will come to visit frequently to make the distance not seem as far. I’m fiercely loyal, slow to anger, quick to forgive, and always open to solving problems/differences.

As a CG, I would open by saying I come from the non-kink/SFW side of CGL and that continues to be how I am as a CG after all these years. By that I mean, if you are the type who needs an intense or very sexual dynamic, one of the other dashing gents here is likely a better match as your prince charming. As a CG, I’m super soft, doting, love babying my partner, and tend to spoil my little rotten with lots of stuffies, in-person time, dates, and the like. Expect lots of hugs, cuddles, pet names, head pats, to hold my hand before crossing the street, and for me to always ask if you’ve eaten today!

Who am I looking for?

Sweet, inspired, passionate, refined, but with an indie soul and an adventurous spirit. Dancing with me in the kitchen at midnight or in foreign streets we’ve never walked before to some old folk song. Slipping into our best to share a nice tasting menu for dinner together. A hand in mine and a reassuring smile. Those are some of the things I dream of.

I want someone who wants to take things slow, wants to spend a lot of time together, wants to make little memories together, wants to spend forever together. It would be great if you could join me on a couple trips a year and like the travel stuff like I do. Icing on the cake would be great taste in music, not bratty, clingy, chatty, short, affectionate. As for requirements, see below for those.

Requirements: College-educated, wants long-term, good communication skills, mental health is sound or under control, monogamous, 23 y/o, US-based.

So, what do you say? Laugh and tell stories until the sun comes up with me? Enjoy the little moments with me? Get lost with me? If I sound like your man, feel free to shoot me a note with a bit about yourself (I won’t respond to just “Hi”) and we can talk, trade pics, and see if there’s chemistry!