hi there! first of all, this is way longer than i thought it would be, but hey, i love a man who reads. as the great john waters said, if you go home with somebody and they don't have books, don't fuck them.

like the title says, i’m a 28 year old babygirl in search of my forever daddy. i’ve been involved in the kink scene for a decade now so i’m looking for someone who is experienced as well. someone who knows the responsibility that comes with being a daddy, and that the title is earned.

so let’s get going, shall we?

i would describe myself as bratty, clever, empathetic, spontaneous, driven, and adventurous. my friend once described me as “very beautiful, but kinda scary” (blame it on my strong sagittarius placements, and yes i will accept my astrology red flag now, thank you). physically i’m 5’3”, curvy, with green eyes, shoulder length brown hair, and far too many tattoos. i’m afab but identify as nonbinary and use they/them pronouns outside of the ddlg dynamic.

i’m a graduate student who’s been working in the mental health field for the past five years, which is one of my main passions. i also enjoy spooky witchy things in general like horror movies (tell me your favorite, it says a lot about you), tarot, long form content about the death industrial complex, dancing naked around a fire in the woods under a full moon with my girlies, and other normal human activities like music, hiking, nature, motorcycles, dance, and traveling.

an important thing about me is that, like most brats, i have very strong (and always right, of course) opinions, so: acab, free palestine, lgbtq rights, no swerfs/terfs, you know the vibes. surprisingly monogamous, unsurprisingly child-free; my two gremlin cats are all the dependents i need. i’m california sober, but don’t mind if you drink. spiritual, but don’t necessarily believe in a singular sky daddy.

one of the most important things to me in a relationship is growth. i’m always striving to be a better person, inside and out, and want that not just for myself, but my partner as well. of course communication, loyalty, empathy, and humor are appreciated too. i get bored easily and crave intellectual stimulation, so if the banter is exceptionally fun, i’m yours. i don’t have a specific type, but i do love glasses and beards haha. all i ask is that you are between the ages of 28 and 40.

i saved the spicier stuff for last because i genuinely am looking for my forever daddy, not just someone wanting a bit of fun (even though i am very fun, i promise). obviously i am very bratty in and out of the bedroom, so i need a daddy with a very stern hand. even though i am the princess of backtalk, at the end of the day i truly do want to make my daddy happy. i love being spoiled with attention and gifts and more attention just as much as i love being spanked until i cry.

i don’t necessarily identify as a little, maybe more of a middle because i’m like an annoying teenager sometimes, but i am searching for a very real daddy. my ideal daddy truly embraces being a caregiving dom, finding pleasure whether it’s playing with my hair until i fall asleep or fucking me so hard i forget my own name. i enjoy a 24/7 dynamic to an extent, and i love a possessive, obsessive daddy. honestly i find a bit jealousy to be kind of hot (i hope you’re enjoying all the free red flags).

i would love to find a partner who is local, but i’m not necessarily opposed to semi-long distance relationships. i’m based in maryland, but i’m frequently in dc and nyc, so i wouldn’t mind braving the trains for the right person. and i’m sincerely looking for the right person. so if you think that’s you, send me a message with a picture and a little about you, since you already know far too much about me.

hope to hear from you soon!