Hello! I am seeking a long term and monogamous relationship with someone I can connect with and give all of my love and attention to.

As stated, I'm 39 and live in Pennsylvania. I have a full time career which I enjoy, but also allows me good flexibility to really prioritize a needy partner. (The needier the better...trust me). I live alone with two cats, I've ever been married, and I have no children. (I also don't have any interest in children. I don't like the idea of sharing my love or attention with anyone besides my partner).

I love podcasts, exploring nature and being outdoors, cooking, cleaning, horror movies and shopping at Spirit Halloween for home decor. I read, I also enjoy collecting comic books based on their cover art or projected value, pinball, some very light video games, taking walks, and building forts out of pillows.

What I'm seeking: A best friend and partner who matches my enthusiasm and intensity. I don't click or connect very strongly often, so when it does happen, I get very exited and will dive in head first. That being said, I also completely understand the importance of building trust, and learning about one another before jumping into a dynamic. I also would like something monogamous, and a person who is looking for something with the potential to be long term.

Ideally, I want to be a great supportive partner and have someone I can fawn over, and take care of. I like lots of contact throughout the day when it's possible, and if long distance is a thing, package exchanges or letter writing, remote date nights, and anything else to close the gap is encouraged.

Understanding one another's interests is important, but I am not the reddit guy who demands you call me Daddy, or laying out rules and tasks the day we start talking. I'm open to talk about kinks to make sure there is physical chemistry but please know that the sexual aspect of the relationship is icing on the cake of a strong connection of personalities. I want to prioritize getting to know each other and learning our shared sfw interests and not leap into sexual conversations.

I hate playing games or trying to be manipulative and have no interest in hiding my feelings in order to hook someone in. If we're connecting, I won't make it a secret.

If you've made it this far, thank you for your attention thus far. I have years of experience and don't mind a newbie or someone wanting to experiment in this lifestyle and see how it goes. I also don't mind someone with experience who knows exactly what they want from their Dd. Dynamics like this should always be fluid and evolving based on the two partners involved.

Kinks are as follows and not all inclusive, nor are any of these deal breakers...Just things I'm interested in currently.

• Feet.
  
• Analingus (giving)
• Light bondage/ impact play
• Collars/ leashes /gags
• Dd/lg
• Oral sex (giving and receiving)
• Praise
• Tasks/Rules
• Orgasm control (forced and denial)
• Neediness

Thanks for making it this far and I look forward to speaking with you and I hope we both find what we're seeking.