Long post warning I’m trying my best to be honest, clear and concise, if there’s anything else u wanna know just dm me, or if not then dm me anyway! x

My name is Oliver but most people call me Oli. Honestly you can call me whatever you like. I’m a kind, understanding guy looking for a long-term (hopefully forever) little/partner of any gender, to properly get to know and form a real connection with.

I love cuddles and little-space time, just as long as you still want to talk to me in normal-space too and have a laugh. Yes I love the CGL dynamic, I enjoy looking after my little and treating them special and making them feel loved ofc. But I’m not looking for JUST a little. I want a real relationship.

I hope to be able to have real conversations about anything and everything. Quality time is so important, being in touch with our own feelings and each others’. And also ofc laughing together about silly things. I don’t want to jinx it by saying this, but I’m really looking for someone to fall in love with, someone I can talk to all night without running out if things to say.

About me:

Physically Im 5’11” (180cm), Broad shoulders, kinda a dad-bod but not like fat, fair/brown hair, a short/tidy beard & blue eyes. I do a fairly physical job so I’m pretty fit & strong. (Feel free to ask if u want to see pics)

Im a bit of a homebody tbh, I have friends but I don’t go out to clubs or anything. I much prefer staying in, but still love having dates/adventures with someone special. I’m a bit of a big nerd for all the typical nerdy things, Star Wars, LOTR, Pokemon etc, plus I love history, geography and nature (I studied Geography at University).

In my free time I read quite a lot, and I love to draw and do crafts (woodwork, polymer clay etc). I’d love to see if you do any arts/crafts too! Sometimes I play video games so I wld love someone to play cute stuff with. Minecraft/stardew/Pokémon/animal crossing, stuff like that, but this isn’t essential at all.

Also I love animals! I have a dog called Maggie and she is pretty much my world. I’d love to hear about your pets/stuffies.

I’ve been through some mental health struggles in the past so I’m super open-minded about any issues/trauma you might have, and I’m more than happy to talk about anything and help support you in any way I can, once you feel comfortable.

Helping you might involve just talking through things, helping you with routine, setting you daily tasks etc etc. I will set you rules if that’s something you’re interested in. I can sometimes be strict but I’m not very good at being super mean/strict. I’m not great at punishments (excluding nsfw) either cos I’m too much of a softy tbh, being horrible isn’t fun for me, but I’m open to try if that’s something you want.

I work a full-time job so can’t message all day but can message (and/or call/vc maybe) most days in the evening. Once we get close I can sometimes be a bit clingy but it’s just cos I care a lot x

Ok, here’s the NSFW stuff:

I’m not in a big rush to get sexual, I think it’s probably healthier to form a bond first. There is no pressure, I’m happy to totally go at your pace, I respect that it’s harder for some people than others to open up ab physical stuff. But I do have a fairly high sex drive once we get to that stage. Sexually I’m 100% a dom, I can sometimes be very rough/K!&ky/depraved, and I’m always open-minded, but I don’t want to do anything you’re not comfortable with. It’s important to discuss these things beforehand so i don’t cross any lines I shouldn’t. I don’t want to SA you, I just want us both to have an awesome time.

What I’m looking for:

• Ideally someone my age or younger, definitely not over 30 or under 18.
• Someone ok with sending pics (once you’re comfortable, just to prove ur not a catfish).
• I’m not fussy about body type or ethnicity, but I’d like someone who I’m attracted to facially.
• Please be fluent in English.
• Preferably i wld want someone in the UK or Europe so there’s not too much time-zone difference, but I’m open to talking to people from anywhere.
• Someone with a sense of humour and an open mind.
• Someone who isn’t Asexual. Im not going to rush into anything nsfw, but I’d hope to talk ab sexual things eventually when you’re ready.
• I’m NOT into diapers. No diaper people please. Sorry
• Preferably not somebody who smokes loads or does serious drugs (I’m 420 friendly I just mean no hardcore stuff/addiction)
• I’m hoping for someone willing to make an effort - who won’t send only one word replies, won’t expect me to provide the momentum of every convo, won’t always take over an hour to reply, and won’t start my just saying “hi” or “I saw your post”.

As I say, feel free to dm if you’re at all interested x