So let's get the deal-breakers out of the way first: don't ever want kids, I smoke pot occasionally, any kind of poly is a no-go (strictly monogamous), humiliation/degradation kinksters need not apply.

5'9" 170lbs dark brown hair/eyes, half korean. Looking for 25-45, maybe younger if you have a mature mindset and know what you want in life. Outside of any dynamic, hopefully you have your own sense of agency and income.

Vanilla life: just starting to get my life on track. Athiest/agnostic but spiritual. Dont ever want kids, preferably you dont want/have any either. I like videogames, anime, cosplaying, hiking, going to the beach occasionally (not a fan of sand), firespinning, and martial arts. A bit neurotic from past traumas. I do pretty well coping, just might need some communication and reassurances at times.

I am strictly monogamous/demisexual, looking for my special someone to love forever. Easily attached/clingy. Soft/service dom. Middle-little sub. I'd like to get to know you online first and possibly come visit you, if it gets that far. I'd need you to relocate to me so I'd like to take the time to know each other. No RP or playing with dynamics online. I'd prefer to find another cg switch but anything else would be ok, considering I'm a switch and what I'm primarily looking for is a connection. My first relationship we played with dd/lg dynamics and was very enjoyable.

Physical touch/quality time primary love languages.

Kinks: I think I identify with primal/pet/switch the most. Lots of cuddles, spanking (giving/receiving), breeding, knife play, petplay, ddlg/mdlb, free-use (giving/receiving), hand on throat (not necessarily choking), Id like to learn shibari but I also like being tied, soaking. curious about CNC. My first little didn't want to use safewords ,that made me a little uncomfortable but that piqued my interest in free-use and CNC.

Limits: scat, poly, degradation/humiliation, yelling, aggressive arguing(communicate! Dont let things build up), excessive pain- if you're into receiving I can dole it out but I'm not a sadist.