Hello there,

Male CG here. I am happily married, poly, and am in search of someone who might be a good fit in this dynamic with me (just me).

When I was younger, I thought that dynamics between older men and younger women were innately exploitative and creepy. It took many years for me to come to terms with the fact that I found such joy in mentoring, spoiling, supporting, and, ultimately, caregiving. I like to think that earlier revulsion inspired me to learn to do this right.

I am white, 5'11, lightly beardy and (I'm told) other pleasant features, slender but I've clearly seen the inside of a gym. I’m a very successful professional, of the 9-5 sort. My interests include RPGs and storytelling, philosophy, politics, and generally nerdy things.

One thing that I'm in the mood in particular to try to help someone cultivate is EQ, self-knowledge, and the ability to have healthy relationships. I've been together with my wife for almost two decades now. I want to share that happiness by helping others learn to find their own. :)

My other 'specialty', so to speak, is existential; I am fond of providing some guidance to those trying to find their place in life and the world, what they want to do, and where to go from here.

I'm open to platonic connections if we click, and it seems that I may be able to provide something meaningful to you, but I am ultimately looking for a sexual connection. This can proceed at whatever pace is comfortable for both of us, though please do tell me upfront if it is something that you are open to. You are welcome to scour my history to see my inclinations from other posts.

I am childfree by choice, and I feel in some ways that helping others grow and prosper is how I make my own lasting mark on the world. This is fulfilling for me, as I know being cared for is for you. I hope to hear from you, and I hope to provide you with something meaningful and lasting. :)