Are you looking for an older experienced Daddy Dom with a soft side, who loves aftercare and yet still has a dominant side? If so, please read on!

I'm a married Dom with many years of experience both as a soft Daddy Dom. I'm looking for someone who is seeking a D/s or DDlg relationship, who will take it seriously, and who wants to build a true connection. BDSM relationships need mutual respect and trust, and a willingness to work with each other.

Please be a good communicator as I don’t want to feel like I’m carrying our conversations or being the only one who shares. I want someone who is able to communicate freely and honestly. I understand our regular lives have priorities, commitments and needs that might prevent daily communication, and that's fine - please just make an effort to stay in touch with me as we go along, and I will do the same for you.

More importantly, since DDlg dynamics require us to know each other intimately, with all our deep dark secrets, awesome exciting ideas, and even mundane daily needs, it's hard to do that without getting to really know each other and spend time in each other's heads.

I would prefer someone local to the San Diego area, but I will consider any SoCal (OC/LA/IE) areas if we are able to get together from time to time. I would consider an online relationship with a little if it's a good fit and serves us both.

If you're even remotely curious about me as a daddy, and want to know more, please chat or DM me and we can talk further. You won't find a more easy going partner, and I'm very open minded about just about anything. I'll openly and honestly answer any questions or concerns that you have for me, no holds barred, so it doesn't hurt to shoot me a note and we can see if we're a match. Physically, I'm white, very tall, stocky dad bod, in decent shape and active, silver brown hair, hazel eyes, and a trimmed goatee.

From a BDSM perspective, my preference is to be a Daddy Dom because I am very much a pleasure Dom, but I'm open to straight D/s dynamics too, and comfortable in that role as well. I never treat any little the same as any other past little. Your needs and desires are unique to you, so I see my job as learning what turns you on, and fulfilling what you're looking for. I am into a ton of kinks, but I think it's best if you tell me what you're into, because I'm pretty sure I'd be up for it! :) Although I lean more on the supporting, and yet demanding, side as a Daddy, I still have a strong love of aftercare and praise for my sub or little. I'm open to any race, age, size, shape, and hair color. :)

I would to hear from you, so shoot me a message and tell me where you're from, and a little about yourself. Let's see if we're a match!