About me:

I’m 30 and about 5’1” with extra pounds that I’m working on losing. I’ve got dark brown eyes and dark brown lower back length hair (currently). I have a good career I care about and just starting, so relocating is not an option, but I’m more than willing to drive to you if you’re in California. I’m also unattached, single, no kids, never been married.
I’m warm, kind, outgoing, and quite assertive/direct outside of the bedroom. I’m a bit of an adrenal junkie, have a number of broken bones and stitches that have fun story behind them. I love scary movies and amusement parks. I also play video games and have a fairly big steam library.

What I’m looking for:

I’ve found I really need BDSM to be sexually and emotionally satisfied in a long-term relationship. I yearn to be submissive and worship my partner. I’ve enjoyed relationships with DD/lg & MD/lg, pet play, and general D/s dynamics in the past. What’s most important is that you’re a confident dom with a sadistic streak. I’ll say broadly that I love discipline/training/punishments, control, humiliation/degradation, impact play, bondage (especially with rope), rituals/protocol, edging/denial/forced orgasms, and anal. I want to feel used and objectified but also cherished. Happy to discuss further details and share more PMs, discord, or snapchat

My ideal match is:

Roughly 25-35 years old, Single/unattached, emotionally available, and interested in pursuing a long-term relationship (I am not interested in anyone married or in an existing primary/nesting partnership) Intellectual and accomplished California resident or very close by Caring, considerate, and a good listener but unafraid to unleash their sadistic side sexually Politically progressive/left leaning Sensual and very verbal in bed (I love sexting and lots of dirty talk, once a rapport is established)

If this sounds like you, please message me a bit about yourself, and what you’re looking for, in general and sexually.