Hi there!

The title pretty much say it all: I want to find my forever person, who may be growly and grumpy on the outside but is a mushy lil cutie pie for his girl. I'm 38 so I know I'm well out of the age range of lots of folks, but living in a rural Appalachian area I figured I would give this another go.

About me: -nerd. I'm a book readin', video game playin', crafty librarian (don't judge me if 80% of what I read these days is smut)

-I love love LOVE animals, both real and stuffies. Especially the misunderstood ones like opossums. I have two pet rats named Biscuit and Gravy.

-super affectionate, I receive love through praise and physical touch, but honestly anything resembling care is nice...the bar is so low lol. I give love in words, touch, and acts of service

-chubby and adorable. Short-ish, pale, hourglass shape, tattoos, piercings, short brown hair, green eyes with central heterochromia. I'm trying to lose some weight, but even at my thinnest, I'm still curvy/thicc.

-crippled! Long story, but I usually have a cane with me, and it mostly won't affect you but we can discuss if we chat.

-Extreeeeeemely leftist. Not liberal, leftist.

-Neurospicy! (ADHD with a touch of the tism)

-role: Middle/sub/prey, generally very obedient for the right person but I want to know the why when I get an order sometimes. Friends have described me as a sub in the bedroom and a little in every day. They have also called me a Chihuahua bc I am very specific about my people. -tons more we can talk about:)

About you: -preferably at least in your 30s, and I tend to like guys a little older, but my best relationships have been with people a bit younger.

-Preferably within a few hours drive time of Western NC or willing to travel and/or relocate at a later date if we get serious.

-Do not expect me to call you Daddy or Sir immediately, those things are earned. You can call me pet names but nothing sexual right away. :)

-kind, understanding, goofy, not necessarily with everyone, but with me. Protective,maybe a lil rough around the edges, honestly I just want a big strong man to take care of me lol

-body type isn't necessarily important, race is unimportant, gender expression is unimportant. You can still be a big strong daddy and be a lil femme.

So yeah, I guess if this speaks to you just give me a shout! xo