Cockwarming isn't just a kink, it's an extension of intimacy that not only makes the sexual into romantic, but also strengths the emotional bond. The act of being connect together weather it be through your mouth or those holes between your thighs, it brings forth a form of carnal desire to want the other even more.

Whether it be while I work at the table with you down between my knees as you take me in your mouth and stay still as you lay your head on my thigh, or perhaps we're on the couch watching a movie and you're lying down on my lap with your mouth full, or maybe you gently lower your pussy to take me in and keep your hole filled through out the night as we sleep together connected in a way that bounds our bodies together, only to wake up to the pleasant feeling of filling and being filled in such intimate, soft and romantic ways.

I believe submission and domination are a form of expressing love, let's focus on the latter first as we dive down the rabbit hole of getting to each others desires.

I'm 24 and working as a software dev. As for what I'm looking for is mostly comprised of love and intimacy. And by intimacy I don't necessarily mean physical intimacy, emotional intimacy is just as important, if not more, that the physical aspects of it. Thus, having a balance between lust and care.

Having an emotional bond that's build on love and trust is an important aspect, as no matter the kind of a bonds people have between them, if there isn't enough trust in it, it would get harder to progress further. So that's what we should focus on establishing first.

As kink is another expression of love, just like any other, it shouldn't be limited to just a singular place, like the bedroom. If both the partners have a mutual understanding between them and a mutual desire to extend this expression into something that's a bit more, it shouldn't be limited between such tight boundaries.

That would be a basic idea for the kind of a person that I'm looking for, someone who won't be afraid to take my hand as we begin our next chapter into something that's not bound by just our kinks, but bound by who we are in as well as outside of it.

BDSM won't be the base of who we are, rather it would be a part of us because of our mutual likes and our desire to explore.

A dynamic where we're not in only for the physical aspects but for creating something deeper and more meaningful in the long run. Where we can smile, laugh and have our lovely romantic moments, yet be able to let our primal carnal selves out in a form of ecstasy. Where we not only value the sexual but create a strong emotional bond along the way.

That's kind of the gist of what I'm looking for, and sometimes this is what's hardest to find. Usually you can find someone who's a lovely, caring and sweet person but all they'd want is a vanilla relationship. Or on the other side of the spectrum you'll see someone who'd love to be owned and be a lovely little as she let's out her sub side. But why not both? If you are someone who'd like the sweet with the spicy in equal amounts, then where have you been all this time?

Feel free to reach out through the DMs or chat if you're interested in this or would like to talk more about it