Yellow! My name is Cas. I'm a 25 year old nonbinary (AFAB, they/them pronouns) neurodivergent little. I'm looking for someone between the ages of 25-50 to get to know/become friends with, with the eventual goal of a cg/l relationship. I'm from Connecticut & plan to be here for another year or so, but then I'm considering moving down to North Carolina to be closer to my sister. In any case, I visit her a few times per year.
Disclaimers (these are things that may be dealbreakers):
- I have no desire to live with a partner; I am very content living alone and do not wish to change this anytime soon.
- I have no desire to get married or become a parent.
- I do not know if I am monogamous or polyamorous. If you need 100% strict monogamy, I am probably not the person for you as I may want to explore this further.
About me: I work as an engineer and will be finishing up my master's degree in the next month. I am very committed to working on my mental health right now; I just finished an intensive outpatient DBT program and currently go to weekly group therapy as well as 2 individual sessions/week. I have borderline personality disorder, PTSD, depression, and anxiety, amongst various other mental and physical health conditions. I am medicated and try my best not to let these hold me back.
I am 5'4", BBW, have chin-length wavy/curly dark brown hair with straight bangs, glasses, 18 piercings, and 3 small tattoos. I have a solid mix between feminine, gothy, and androgynous styles. I can often be found wearing kitty ears or silly headbands.
I love all things STEM (especially astronomy), stargazing, traveling, baking, live music, crafting (lately cross stitching), playing games, napping, and attending local kink events. I have a one year old kitten and a five year old guinea pig!
What I would like from a dynamic: I am open to both nonsexual & sexual. I prefer mostly nonsexual in regards to my littlespace, but am interested in exploring. Our dynamic does not need to be 24/7, however I do prefer the general power exchange, calling my partner by their honorifics, and being childish most of the time as that is just my nature. I would like someone that enjoys putting me in littlespace, babying me, and encouraging/participating in activities with me. Someone that enjoys texting throughout the day (doesn't need to be constant; a few texts here & there is okay), sending cute pictures & memes, calling & video chatting when our schedules allow if we cannot be together in person often. Watching shows/movies & playing games together, and reading me bedtime stories when able. I do enjoy wearing diapers, but it's not a dealbreaker if you aren't into that.
My kinks: we can discuss more in-depth when we get to that point, but I am open to trying just about anything. I am mostly submissive with a switchy side (though it's gone unexplored, except for being a caregiver myself).
I realize this post is getting long, so if you're still with me and haven't been scared away, please do send me a message! I'd love to learn a bit about you & go from there! I look forward to hearing from you! :)
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