Hi!

I am 31 years old, turning 32 in June (almost birthday girl!!!), I live in germany but maybe you do not, so I am sending this to wherever you are.

I really like it here so maybe you would be comfortable with moving should we reach that point...just mentioning it.

You sure take your time finding me, for real, so I thought I give you a hint and let you know it's me who's writing (I know, so gracious of me, I think I deserve a treat for that).

I am about 167 cm (5'6 ft) tall, I am white, I have long brunette hair and brown eyes. My body type is curvy/thick/squishy/juicy.

I have some tattoos (the beginning of a sleeve and one small one on my wrist) and there will be more.

If you have any tattoos, feel free to tell me about them if you like! I find the whereabouts and meanings behind them always interesting (if it's not to personal for you of course! No pressure).

I want to begin with a few points that we have to agree on before I start with my monologue:

I am monogamous and childfree, that means absolutely no sharing and I don't want children. I am looking for commitment with the goal of forever and I am not interested in anything casual. While I should not have to mention this in 2024 anymore... if you tend to have any racist, sexist, homophobic or other bigoted tendencies, spare me that interaction. Appreciated.

I prefer my partner to be someone between 30 and 40 years of age. Give or take.

A bit about me: I am an independent and strong personality. Creative, curious and communicative, I am a homebody but I do enjoy being social when I am with my favorite people.

I am ambitious and I build a good life for myself in the last years.

I enjoy reading, I have my own tiny library with my favorite books, I do DIY home projects and step by step I am turning my apartment into my own personal sanctuary.

I have an interest for the universe, spirituality and everything magical and witchy. I love trying new foods and I bake for the gods (shameless self promotion).

I have two cats and my tiny black panthers mean the world to me. A relationship with me means building one with them too and I will gladly do the same should you have pets.

Mental health has an important place in my life and I thrive to be a healthier version of my authentic self every day. I know what I want and what is not for me and I value healthy boundaries and clear communication.

I also like doing wellness, taking care of my hair, my skin and doing my nails (I would love for you to join me. I will totally put a face mask on you).

I put a lot of effort into the things and people I care about. I love romance and I have a lot of love to give. My love language is words of affirmation and I react strongly to praise and attention.

But no one is just one thing and this is where my duality comes in.

I am a playful and bubbly Middle. High energy, sassy, naughty (in the best way) and very cute (obviously).

I am NOT a "little" little, I am not into ABDL or coloring, cartoons, sippy cups etc..(no shame to those who like it, its simply not me).

I thrive through praise and reassurance. I submit when I feel safe and only to you. If you give me the feeling, that you know what you are doing and you really care about knowing me then I will give you the counterpart in return.

I am not interested in a "traditional" BDSM dynamic. I don't need rules, discipline or punishments, they don't do anything for me. Having them just for the sake of it does not make sense to me if they don't fill a purpose.

My sexual energy is high and my kinks are an important part of my submission. Calling you Daddy has a deep meaning for me just like giving you my body does. Without the emotional connection though, nothing will happen.

If there is intent then whats the hurry? I just want to be clear that I am not gonna sext you after a few days of talking. I am comfortable with flirting but I want something real. I know the love I wish for exists, because I exist and therefore you do too.

I wish for a proper healthy relationship with all the "typical" couple things. We are partners first and we combine it with our very own dynamic.

I love being in subspace but I am not in it 24/7 and being an independent adult is just as important to me. I need both to be happy. Just like you are more then your dominant side.

My future Daddy is someone who specifically wants to be called Daddy. I am not looking for a Sir or Master.

Someone who understands the power in soft dominance, praise and reassurance and who is affectionate, caring and protective. The sturdy calm to my energetic excitement.

You should wish for a strong partner by your side that gets soft and sweet only for you. I am literally the tough one outside and the pampered princess inside. At least I want to be but here I am, writing this because you take your time! (Rude.)

At the end of the day we are people with jobs and responsibilities, a life we build and stories to tell. Happy and sad ones.

I am not looking for perfection, I am looking for personality with self awareness, maturity and the drive to live a good life.

I want us to conquer this life together, as real human beings with ups and downs and complains about the weather and how everything is so expensive and then we see a squirrel in the tree and cuddle my cats and everything is good again.

Let's be each others safe place with no taboo in what we can talk about. So wherever you are, I really hope you find this. Until then, keep yourself safe.

If you decide to write me then I have a question for you. What is a personal achievement that you are very proud of? Not the "regular" successes at work and all that (although they are great!) but something that is specifically you?

See you (hopefully) soon

Miri

P.S.: I work and I am mostly available in the evening, german time.

P.P.S.: Hurry up and find me, will ya?!

P.P.P.S.: How often can I use a P.S. until it turns into gibberish?