First off hello! My name is Phoenix. I'm 28 and will be moving to Michigan. I'll be there for 6 months to relocate somewhere else. I haven't figured out where, but I need an Amazon centre and, tbh an ocean. (more on that one later)

About me Well, to start of 80 percent of me is a nerd. I flash my Vulcan friendship sign as often as I can, when I know I'm amongst fellow nerds. ( I even have it in fortnite and do it every time I drop a player) I love attending comic cons in full cosplay. I'm in desperate need of a plus one, so I reallyyyyyyy hope you enjoy cons, and walking to every booth and going to panels. I'm huge into Doctor who as well! As stated above, I am or try to be a gamer and stream. Right now, im into fortnite obviously lol but also gta and ark. I'm getting into magic the gathering and absolutely love it. For 10 years, I volunteered/worked for rock and fossil clubs. My job was to detail specimens display some of them ended up being museum level, which I'm still very proud of. I still do it from time to time am. I'm more of a 60/40 type of person for being outside more, but there are times I'm very happy indoors doing a puzzle. (very old man of me) I loooove puzzles, but my main hobby indoors is cooking. I love to cook and from scratch. It's a huge anxiety and depression release. I even enjoy the cleansing so long as I have music. I hope to have you by my side cooking if possible, if not just sit there and look cute and giggle for me as we talk.The mainn part of my life is devoted to ocean conservation and environmental sustainabilit, hence why stated above I need an ocean. I will be returning to finish my degrees in marine biology and environmentall sustainability once I arrive stateside. My ultimate goal is to establish not one but two marine rehabilitation and education centres. Their main objective is the revitalization of the world's coral reefs.

IDEAL DATES: It's a firm belief to have date night once a week. For me, it doesn't have to be anything big all the time, but I'll be honest I do like going big often. I absolutely love going out in a suit to dinner, but I do very much like sitting under a blanket watching a movie. I can include a list of some things I think would be awesome for a date night.

Drive in movie Star gazing laying in a boat Aquarium Museum Markets Shopping Gaming night Puzzles Dancing and singing together in the living room(I was in choir for 12 years)

BDSM/DDLG:

So there is a lot more about me I would love to talk about, but I'd prefer to do that actually with you. I will however go over the kinky side of me, since that is why we are here after all.

I have been a master/daddy for 10 years, and honestly love both sides to it. I can't pick which dynamic I like more. I will say I am more of a soft daddy, but in all honesty when I get very stressed or worked up that's where my more sadistic side shows it's side.

and I'll explain

SOFT DADDY: This I'd me probably 75/80 percent of the time. I'm very calm soft spoken lots of snuggles kisses. Honestly more cuddles than you can take. (My love language is touching. I HAVE to touch and not be in a sexual way necessarily. Like I'll want my arm around you, or holding hands out in public or at home. I'll want you in my lap or laying on me or my hand on your thigh) I'll want to give you full body rub downs; just as much as I hope you will do to me and a shit ton of nose boops.

SADISTIC MASTER: I will say I try very hard to keep this from not showing up too often, but unfortunately it does in very trying times. I can let it show more often if you are into that. I do want someone I can tie down and breed letting off as much steam as I can. I want to be able to fully retain blindfold and use whenever I need. I do have a kink for free use so if we are cooking or something, I want to be able to bend you over and take you.

Some of my favourite kinks are as mentioned/not Free use Cnc Ice play Breath play Ropes/chains Whips/belts Semi public if you're comfortable I've been interested in trying electo play but that doesn't have to happen if nocompletelyte comfortable Very much into public play your ass will be smacked and if I were to own you you will have a daily collar that you pick out I'd love to grab your face and direct your gaze to me while I am talking to you and watch you smile and giggle I am very willing to try and give anal its something I've never done but I will NEVER receive that is my limit I will say I loveee to kiss both romantically and not so lol I do love tongue honestly I love to suck on tongue so fucking much

LIMITS: These include anything illegal Receiving anal I know you said you don't try to dom your partner but I will say that is a limit for me attempting to overthrow me is a big no I don't mind it in teasing just know punishments will be following lol Scat I don't like playing with shit I have IBS and I deal with it enough

There are more, but I feel it's a healthy supply for now. I am very keen to adapt to what you like/don't feel comfortable with.

So that is me! I'm very happy to hear from you, and I'm really really looking forward to getting to know each other more! I hope you have a great day, and thank you very much for listening to me ramble on !!