Is it too much to look for a love like Morticia and Gomez? Laying everything out so we don't waste each others' time uwu

To start with the SFW:

Appearance-wise, I'm 5'2, dark brown hair (natural and may dye it in the future), brown eyes, fairly light-skinned (by Philippine standards), a couple of tattoos and want more, no piercings (even ears but want to have them pierced), cis, and squishy chubby. Standard thick thighs, boobs, butt, hips, and I do have a belly. I'd be around mid-size for US measurements. Not petite by any stretch of the imagination but I do want to lose weight for my health. I am diagnosed with and do suffer from depression so I have some (old!) light scarring on my arms and hips which is a big no for some but I do manage it fairly well. I lean more on the alternative style.

For hobbies, it definitely varies but I'm an indoor cat mostly. Despite being from, and in, a tropical country, I cook in the sun but I like the beach. I'm into videogames of the cozy, MMO, and RPG varieties but willing to try out new games, D&D (5e) and TTRPGs in general (I love learning about new systems!), binging anime and manga/manhwa, watching movies and series, escape rooms (digital and in-person), learning new crafts (I crochet), art and design, space, marine life, fantasy, sci-fi, listening to music (current obsession is Sleep Token), cooking, and baking. Sometimes I get the urge to go out to a mall or park or cafe and just people watch. Cat person but love animals in general.

As a person and a partner, I'm loyal, big on communication, affectionate, loving, and definitely could be described as clingy because I'll try to get your attention. Most importantly, I am monogamous. I do not wish to be shared nor do I want to share. I tend to need more reassurance until I feel secure. 420 friendly but I personally do not partake. Bisexual. I don't smoke. Casual social drinker. DDF. I love just being on discord calls, doing our own things together, watching movies and series, and hopefully playing games together. I've been in a couple LDRs so it's not something new to me. When we're sure it's a forever thing, I am open to relocating. I have a career in the design/marketing world in a managerial type position, working from home so I can be on calls while working. Generally available from 8pm-1pm EST.

Now for the NSFW bits:

I've only been into ddlg/cgl/general bdsm for about 4 years so I don't have a lot of personal experience. I do know I can be bratty (generally a good girl) and what my hard limits are. On one side, I love plushies, forehead kisses, cuddling, being spoiled (but also very shy about being given anything???), cute dates, soft gentleness. On the other, I'm very in-tune with my sexuality. Bondage, rough, public, CNC, freeuse, toys, knifeplay, choking, you get it. Okay with anal stuff but not really into it. Happy to discuss further in chat. Hard pass on abdl, any type of scat, toilet play, vomit, needles, excessive violence that lead to any type of scars or massive bruising.

That was a super long about me so what about you? Here's what I'm looking for:

• Monogamous (Non-negotiable)
• Doesn't want kids (because I'm baby)(Non-negotiable and hard dealbreaker. You can have older kids, I just will not be a mom to them. Cool aunt, I can do.) points if you've already had a vasectomy.
• Shared interests, especially videogames!
• Likes being on calls and good with responding to messages
• Not wishy-washy about feelings and labels
• Can communicate well (feelings, boundaries, etc)
• Taller than me (pls I'm only 5'2 this isn't too hard I think)
• Age is preferably 25 but okay with a bit younger if you're more mature. Still must be 20 though. Upper limit is around 45-ish, also negotiable for the right person.
• Possibly willing to travel (only bc my passport is WEAK)
• Enjoy spending time with me
• Romantic because I am too.

If you've made it this far, good. I use my post to weed out people not actually interested. Personality is a priority for me but attraction is definitely important so I'm willing to exchange pics if we vibe well. Willing to also go on vc fairly soon once we step out of reddit because I have a thing for voices. Tell me about yourself!