So this will be long but I've never put So much effort and thought into describing myself I'm very proud of it I hope you enjoy!

First off hello my name is Phoenix I'm 28 and will be moving to Michigan for 6 months to relocate somewhere else in the states I haven't figured where but I need an Amazon centre and tbh an ocean (more on that one later)

About me Well to start of 80 percent of me is a nerd I flash my Vulcan friendship sign as often as I can when I know I'm amongst fellow nerds ( I even have it in fortnite and do it every time I drop a player) I love going to cons and going in full cosplay I'm in desperate need of a plus one so I reallyyyyyyy hope you enjoy cons and walking to every booth and going to panels I'm huge into doctor who as well! As stated above I am or try to be a gamer and stream rn im into fortnite obviously lol but also gta and ark I'm getting into magic the gathering and absolutely love it for 10 years I volunteered/worked for rock and fossil clubs my job was to detail specimens display some of them ended up being museum level which I'm still very proud of I still do it from time to time am 60/40 for being outside more but there are times I'm very happy indoors doing a puzzle (very old man of me) I loooove puzzles but my main hobby indoors is cooking I love to cook and from scratch it a huge anxiety and depression release I even enjoy the cleansing so long as I have music so I hope to have you by my side cooking if possible if not just sit there and look cute and giggle for me as we talk main part of my life is devoted to Ocean conservation and environmental sustainability hence why stated above I need an ocean my situation here in australia was grand and I'm really really not looking forward to coming back stateside but I was unable to secure residency in time and my visa expired so now I'm not allowed back for 5 years ( I can explain later if your interested I'll just say I have been fighting two governments about residency since I landed) I will be returning to finish my degrees in marine biology and Environmental sustainability once I arrive stateside my ultimate goal is to establish not one but two marine rehabilitation and education centres for the revitalization of the world's coral reefs

IDEAL DATES It's a firm belief to have date night once a week for me it doesn't have to be anything big all the time but I'll be honest I do like going big often I absolutely love going out in a suit to dinner but I do very much like sitting under a blanket watching a movie but here is a list of some things I think would be awesome for a date

Drive in movie Star gazing laying in a boat Aquarium Museum Markets Shopping Gaming night Puzzles Dancing and singing together in the living room(I was in choir for 12 years)

BDSM/DDLG aspects

So there is a lot more about me I would love to talk about but I'd prefer to do that actually with you but I'll give more about the kink side now

I have been a master/daddy for 10 years and honestly love both sides to it I can't pick which dynamic I like more unfortunately sorry about that I will say I am more of a soft daddy but in all honesty when I get very stressed or worked up that's where my more sadistic side shows it's side and I'll explain

SOFT DADDY this I'd me probably 75/80 percent of the time I'm very calm soft spoken lots of snuggles kisses honestly more cuddles then you can take (my love language is touching I HAVE to touch and not in a sexual way necessarily like I'll want my arm around you or holding hands out in public or at home I'll want you in my lap or laying on me or my hand on your thigh) I'll want to give you full body rub downs just as much as I hope you will do to me and a shit ton of nose boops

SADISTIC MASTER I will say I try very hard to keep this from not showing up too often but unfortunately it does in very trying time I would like someone that I can breed (not having kids I hate spoiled stupid kids and DO NOT want them I will be getting sipped) but I do want someone I can tie down and breed letting off as much steam as I can I want to be able to fully retain blindfold and use whenever I need and that's not only in the bedroom I do have a kink for free use so if we are cooking or something I want to be able to bend you over and take you

Some of my favourite kinks are as mentioned/not Free use Cnc Ice play Breath play Ropes/chains Whips/belts Semi public if your comfortable I've been interested in trying electo play but that doesn't have to happen if not complete comfortable Very much into public embarrassment your ass will be smacked and if I were to own you you will have a daily collar that you pick out I'd love to grab your face and Direct your gaze to me while I am talking to you and watch you smile and giggle I am very willing to try and give anal its something I've never done but I will NEVER receive that is my limit I will say I loveee to kiss both romantically and not so lol I do love tongue honestly I love to suck on tongue so fucking much

LIMITS these include anything illegal Receiving anal I know you said you don't try to dom your partner but I will say that is a limit for me attempting to overthrow me is a big no I don't mind it in teasing just know punishments will be following lol Scat I don't like playing with shit I have IBS and I deal with it enough

So that is me I'm very happy to hear from you and I'm really really looking forward to getting to know each other more! I hope you have a great day and thank you very much for listening to me ramble on !!