Long post warning

I’m gonna try to be clear & concise, if there’s anything else you want to know feel free to dm me, or just dm me anyway! x

My name is Oliver but most people call me Oli. Honestly you can call me whatever you like. I’m a kind, understanding guy looking for a long-term (hopefully forever) monogamous little/partner, of any gender, to properly get to know and form a real connection with.

I love being there for you in little-space time, just as long as you still want to talk to me in normal-space too, as friends and as a couple. Yes I love the CGL dynamic, I really enjoy looking after my little, treating them special, and making sure they feel safe and loved. But I’m not looking for JUST a little. I want a real relationship.

I’m a huge fan of cuddles, as well as deep conversations abound pretty much anything, laughing at stupid nonsense, and generally just spending quality time with someone I care about. Being in touch with our own feeling and each other’s.

I don’t want to jinx it by saying this, but I’m really looking for someone to fall in love with, somebody I can talk to all night without running out of things to say.

About me:

Physically Im 5’11” (180cm), Broad shoulders, kinda a dad-bod but not fat, fair/brown hair, a short/tidy beard & blue eyes. I do a fairly physical job so I’m pretty fit & strong. (Feel free to ask if u want to see pics)

Im a bit of a homebody tbh, I have friends but I don’t go out to clubs or anything. I much prefer staying in, but still love having dates/adventures with someone special. I’m a bit of a big nerd for History, Geography and natural sciences (I studied Geography at University.) Plus all the typical nerdy things, Star Wars, LOTR, Pokemon etc, (Oh also I’m non-religious, Aquarius and intj if you’re into those kind of things.)

In my free time I read quite a lot, and I love to draw and write and sometimes do other crafts. I also play video games so I wld love someone to play (or just talk about) games with, Minecraft/stardew/animal crossing/Red dead/planet zoo/Skyrim etc. stuff like that. But this isn’t essential at all, so please don’t be put off if you’re not a gamer. Oh also I play DnD once a week with friends.

Also I love animals! I have a dog called Maggie and she is pretty much my world. I love seeing and hearing about other peoples pets (and/or stuffies!)

I’ve been through some mental health struggles in the past, (and occasionally still had rough mental health days,) so I’m super open-minded about any issues/trauma you might have, and I’m more than happy to talk about anything, and help support you in any way I can, once you feel comfortable.

Helping you might involve just talking through things, helping you with routine, setting you daily tasks etc etc. I can set you rules if that’s something you’re interested in, but I’m not very good at being super mean/strict if you break rules. I’m not great at punishments (excluding nsfw) either cos I’m too much of a softy tbh, being horrible isn’t fun for me. I set rules and guidelines to help build you up, not stress you out. I’m open to try being stricter if that’s something you would want tho.

I work a full-time job so can’t message all day but can message (and/or call/vc maybe) most days in the evening. Once we get close I can sometimes be a bit clingy but it’s just cos I care a lot x

Ok, here’s the NSFW stuff:

I’m not in a big rush to get sexual, I think it’s healthier to form a bond first. There is no pressure, I’m happy to totally go at your pace, I respect that it’s harder for some people than others to open up about physical stuff. But I do have a fairly high sex drive once we get to that stage. Sexually I’m 100% a dom, I can sometimes be very rough/K!&ky, but I don’t want to do anything you’re not comfortable with. It’s important to discuss these things beforehand so i don’t cross any lines I shouldn’t. I don’t want to SA you, I just want us both to have an awesome time.

What I’m looking for:

• Ideally someone around my age, preferably under 30, and of course definitely not under 18.
• Someone ok with sending pics (once you’re comfortable, just to prove you’re real).
• I’m not fussy about body type, but I’d like someone who I’m attracted to facially. I do kinda have a type but I’m open to almost anybody.
• Please be fluent in English.
• I am really not into diapers / abdl. So if that’s your thing then I’m not the Cg for you.
• Someone who isn’t ace. Like I said, Im not in a rush to be nsfw, but I’d hope to talk about those things eventually. Plus I can be flirty and I wouldn’t want to make you uncomfortable.
• Preferably i would want someone in the UK or Europe so there’s not too much time-zone difference, but I’m open to talking to people from anywhere. I also like the thought of this relationship eventually becoming irl, but I know that might not be realistic.
• Someone with a sense of humour and an open mind.
• Preferably not somebody who smokes loads or does serious drugs (I’m 420 friendly I just mean no hardcore stuff/addiction)
• I’d rather someone with a bit of intelligence so we can have random/deep conversations about stuff, but I’m not looking for a genius idk.
• I’m hoping for someone willing to make an effort - who won’t send only one word replies, won’t expect me to provide the momentum of every convo, won’t always take over an hour to reply, and won’t start my just saying “hi” or “I saw your post”.
• Hate to admit it but I’m less likely to reply to you if you have a blank profile.

I hope this list isn’t too demanding. But yea, feel free to dm if you’re at all interested x