First things first, I am separated, I am honest and straight forward and have nothing to hide.

Not looking to share myself or someone else, so must be monogamous.

I am looking for someone Sub/Switch leaning, little/middle/slightly bratty. Someone who is in Charlotte or the surrounding area. Not looking for long distance(more than 1hr away honestly is long distance.)

I have no preference on race or body type. I am non-religious(agnostic to be exact) and feel if you are super religious it may cause problems, sooo… be aware!

Prefer someone whose schedule aligns with mine(mon-fri 7am-330pm) and I have no obligations on weekends currently.

Not interested in kids, now or the future.

Looking to build a life, a solid loving relationship, while putting aside adequate time for kinks and dynamics.

My non-kink side, I am a diesel mechanic and work mon-fri first shift. I love cars, primarily JDM with a focus on track/drift built cars. I myself am looking to get to the track this year hopefully once I get my second car straightened out!! I have a love hate with video games, PC to be exact, more specifically multiplayer games. If I find something that gets me excited I can be on them for a bit, if not I’ll just watch YouTube videos about car content. I love animals, primarily cats, but do have a fish tank, which is a lot more work than I would have thought! Growing a little world and taking care of it is awesome though. I love to think outside the box, devils advocate, conspiracy, and have deep conversations. Typically a homebody, and if I do go out it will be with my mate, so lately I’ve been inside quite a bit! I am not on TikTok, I don’t really use social media, not really into politics… I like to know what is going on and form my own opinion, so sometimes I dive down the rabbit hole.

I am introverted, but with my mate or close friends extremely open and talkative. So where as I may be willing to do something that takes me out of my comfort zone with my mate, I won’t be upset, but not going to pretend to be a social butterfly either.

Non-kink side, not everything but should give a general gist. Primal, Daddy, pleasure/soft dom, brat tamer. So I enjoy taking care of someone, building them up. I am stern, and don't hesitate to give punishments when needed, but also praise and funishments as rewards for being a good sub/girl. Being respectful, open, keeping promises, building trust, being creative. Enjoy the responsibility, being protective, being a mentor, listening, being able to drop being a dom when needed though as well. Collaring, spanking, degrading, controlling, assertive. Love using toys, binds and ropes.
I could keep listing more but I’m very versatile with a lot of it, it really depends on my partners wants/needs to some extent.

Hard limits scat, mutilation, poly, illegal activities(kids, animals, etc)

Would love to talk more in-depth one on one about kinks/limits, as I can be quite versatile or switchy with the perfect person, but not typically.