hi once again! After dealing with a few things that kept me away from this search, I'm here searching for my special someone!

However, I am adding this here for anyone interested due to the overwhelmingly number of rude people on here, but if you're interested, reach out with a photo in your first message please (and I will always share one back), or I'm just not answering. The number of people on here when it comes to a photo being rude is incredible, insane. If you aren't put off by this, read further!

Anyways, I again want to say that I'm honored to get messages when I post searching for someone, it means a lot to match what people are looking for in terms of personality and wants! Unfortunately, with many conversations going dark or stopping before they even have a chance (I wish people wouldn't just disappear even before we exchanged names), or because people aren't wanting to read my entire post, I'm here again because I'd really love to find someone open to a new place that I enjoy a mutual attraction and long term desires/similar kinks with as this is important to me! :)

so yeah, hi! I'm here because I'm a soft dom that's been into the cgl dynamic for a really long time, but it's been a while since I've had a little to dote on, care for long term, and help care for like she's my world, so I'd love to find someone who wants the same things I do :) I'd really love to find someone that clicks with the timeline of what I'm looking for long term that's also open to someone that is capable of providing a world to you where all you'd need to ultimately worry about is being open to a new city! I can happy take care of the rest for us :)

I'm basically looking for a little that loves to be cared for! I'm a man that loves giving praise, helping with things such as homework if you're in school, helping with little to big decisions in your every day life, helping you create a routine, rules to follow, and just in general teach you everything that I can think of for your benefit! I'm flexible and open minded, so while I don't necessarily need to do all of these things, I'd love to talk more in dms to see what you prefer and what you'd like to see how well we can align with our wants!

I am also someone that believes that a cgl/ddlg dynamic should be something that can be ongoing all the time, which means that I would want a little to feel comfortable both when she's a little and big girl at all times. That also means that I'm someone that enjoys mixing sfw and nsfw throughout a given day, as I've always believed things should feel natural, not when there's a bit of an on/off switch. I want to get to know you, learn everything about you, with as much conversation as we can find between each other, as I think its incredibly important in building a foundation for this that we actually talk to each other, as that's been the most difficult thing to find in my search so far (availability out of a little).

I also wanted to add that while not realizing it, being able to have a healthy mix of sfw and nsfw in the dynamic is valuable to me, and I have a few kinks I would love to share with you (as I really enjoy wordplay and creating visual differences with each other to amplify how good things feel such as both praise and more fun/deeper things), so being able to share that is something I'd like too. I can't stress this enough that I'd like for there to be a healthy mix of both, as its really important to me (not right away of course, but at some point!). Being open to it is what matters to me :)

If you make it this far, I'm honored! I want to say that this next part is incredibly important to me, and if there's anything I'd love to make sure we can agree on (or at least be open to agreeing on), its what I wrote next (both in terms of family and location!)

I'd love to find someone long term that wants to have a family one day as I'd love to be a daddy daddy! I have a place (this means that I would really love to have someone open to living here in NYC long term) I'm happy with to offer someone space wise long term (so all the difficult things are already taken care of), someone younger than me, that enjoys playing video games is a nice bonus and someone that's talkative! I am an engineer that gets to work from home and you'd never have to worry about me being lacking when it comes to conversation :)

If you think we'd click and you'd like to get to know a guy that knows what he wants with the time to give to make something like this happen, I'd love to hear from you and what you think of me :)

Hoping we can chat soon!