It's a rainy day out there, and I'm sitting here looking out the window beside my two kitties. This would be the perfect snuggling weather, if only I had someone to share it with. I'm a professor living in NYC, though I'm often in SF, too. I'm mostly looking in NYC and have no plans to move from this great city, but I'm open to meeting someone in SF since I'm there enough...and hey, maybe anywhere. How should I describe myself to you? I'm a quiet intellectual, but I'm also very creative and unconventional. I'm a maximalist and my apartment is covered in striking art, strange figurines, and cute plushies. I don't like soulless minimalism. I'm pretty active and I love exploring the city, hunting down delicious food and sweets, and I'm excited that the cherry trees are starting to blossom. My favorite cuisines are Korean and Japanese, and I can cook some serious japchae and ramen (no instant nonsense, I mean the real deal!). My next goal is to get back into making music like I used to - my studies have occupied my time for so long, but I feel that creative urge once again. I'm always looking to learn and evolve.

I'm fit and slender, and you might be wondering what I look like as a nonbinary person. Probably strangers read me as a gay man, as my body is masculine but I'm deeply in touch with my femininity. I'm a unique person and I don't care about gender norms or how others want me to be. I'm just me. I have a shaven head, very short beard, and a wide smile. I'm looking for someone who is either fit or slender like me, as that's my lifestyle.

I've had a few subs in the past and I love being a Daddy Dom. I thrive when I'm taking care of someone. I'm naturally a caregiver at heart, and I'm also hopelessly kinky. I feel out of place in the kink community sometimes because I'm really just looking for a wholesome and deep relationship that also happens to be wildly kinky and passionate. I'm a soft Daddy with a darker side. If you're the kind of person who wants to be treated like a princess but also wants to be led around on a leash and trained into being Daddy's good, little slut, then we might be a good fit. You see, this is why the dating apps don't work for me :P

Some of my kinks are: DDlg, edging, training, free use, CNC, praise, objectification, and more.

If any of this resonates with you, then send me a message in chat! Tell me how old you are, where you are, and what you found intriguing about my post. And tell me a little about yourself! I prefer messages that show some effort. Please also send a pic (and I'll reciprocate), because attraction is important. I suppose a vivid description could do, too.