Looking to connect with someone I can have great conversations and dates with, would be into meeting for a coffee, cocktail or tasty bite as a first date.

People say l'm sweet and understanding. Also I give great massages!

Love cooking, walks in the park, wine nights and spending as many evenings laughing with friends as possible. I'm a very easy to get along with guy who tries to be great at comunicating. I get along best with sweet and open people who can be vulnerable.

I'm poly, partnered and dating solo. Not looking for a third but my partners have been friends in the past. I'm free at least once or twice a week.

I drive so a little distance is no problem as long as you like to text and talk a little here and there :)

I work from home or I'm in midtown otherwise.

How I look:

Well kept beard, Thick rimmed black glasses. 5'8 (actually) I like to work out. Will send sfw pictures when you want.

Currently I'm reading my first James Baldwin book after watching 4 short films about him. I've always wanted to dive into his work and I'm glad to be finally getting there. Also I just downloaded the audiobook for The Other Significant Others which is a book about the friendship recession or the loneliness epidemic and the different kinds of non romantic relationships that people need in the world to thrive along with how some alternatives versions of these relationships can look

NSFW:

Into a lot but most of all I'm deeply into playing out my partner's favorite fantasies if it's within my limits. I like the sounds that tell me my partner is enjoying themselves. In the bedroom I mostly see myself as a soft dom interested in the lightly kinky classics and a rarely switchy guy depending on the connection of course.

Almost everyone loves sex of course but I'm very patient and don't like going fast. I'm very happy with a slightly slower pace where we go on dates, flirt and figure out what we may have in common over time. Can host and have overnights in the future if we get to such things.