Hi there! Thanks for clicking on my post. :)

My name is Bee, and I'm a little who's looking for a caregiver. I'm looking for someone I can be friends with and someone I can form a real bond with. I'mma big ole' softy, and I want someone who I can be sweet and affectionate with. So I figured I'd try my luck, post a personal ad, and see if I can find someone.

Since I'm looking for a caregiver I can bond with, I figure I should tell you a bit about me first, so you can know if I'm the kinda little for you. :)

So! In my big life, I'm 29 years old. I'm non-binary, and I was born male. I call myself an enboy as well...I might look like a boy, and I might not mind being called a boy, but I'm still not really a boy. I'm also queer and into boys, girls and everyone in between.

At the moment, I live in the DMV, about an hour outside D.C in Maryland. I share my space with a roommate. She's autistic and needs help taking care of her self. So I help pay her bills, manage her appointments and am otherwise responsible for her needs being met.

I'm enrolled in college, going for a degree in Political Science, and help run an autism club for my fellow students. I eventually wanna help people full time, but for now I work part-time in customer service and I volunteer in my spare time for a few projects, and have to take care of my own needs. Being neurodivergent, it takes a lot of deliberate effort on my part just to maintain all I have going and it's pretty easy for me to lose track of stuff or forget important things.

...Needless to say, I am a very sleepy enboy as a result of all this stuff. :p

In my spare time, my big interests include reading, writing, music and live concerts and trying new things. New shows, new music, new food...I get listless if I don't do new stuff every so often, so adventures and novelty are stuff I have to seek out. I'm a chubby little fella, but I am working on eating better, and I do yoga and go on hikes to take care of myself.

In my little life, I tend to hover at around 6 or 7, sometimes older, sometimes younger, but generally returning to that range. I'm a lot goofier and sillier when I'm in little space, and I adore snuggles and just getting to be myself in a way I can't be in the big world. I love cartoons and "age-appropriate" versions of my grownup interests. Switching my big books for kids ones, changing my music out for more age appropriate stuff, going on adventures meant for little folks, that sorta thing.

I'm happy to go into more detail (I like to talk if you can't tell. :p) but I think this is getting long enough. I'll end things by summing up what I'm looking for, and then send my bottle out to sea.

In a caregiver, I want someone who can help me compensate for my deficiencies. I love having rules and structure and routine, but am generally pretty bad at making them for myself. I'm looking to start things off in a more platonic, friendly kinda way. I've been doing this a while, so I need time to warm up to folks. Sex isn't super important to me, though I am pretty romantic and sweet and I'd like to have that with my caregiver, with sex being a thing we consider later down the road. I'd like someone within about 10 years of my age, with a preference for my age or above. I don't mind things being online, but I would eventually like to settle in with my caregiver, either with them living close enough I can see them often, or us living together once we've made a living situation that suits us both. I don't drink, smoke or do drugs, and while I don't mind if you drink or blaze, I personally don't enjoy the smell of smoke of any kind, so I'd ask you be considerate of that.

And I think that's everything really. Phew! Bit of a long one I know, but thank you for getting this far if you did. :) I know it's a long shot, but I hope I can find the person for me. So if you liked what you see, or just wanna talk, shoot me a message and we'll see where things go. Thank you, and have an awesome day. <3