Hiya,
Hope you're doing well!
For now, you can call me Lia. I'm 30 (and a quarter :p) years old, and I'm located in the province of Quebec (not Montreal, fuck that traffic jam of a city and the expo 67 that created it as such).
(Oh no I put something negative in a dating profile thingy, damn it!...Hum hum I got this, I can save it, hum let's see...oh yeah!)
I was assigned male at birth, had giblet altering surgery almost 4 years ago, and started transition many years prior...
โฝ\^โขโฉโข\^โผ (Nailed it!)
I'm obviously willing to exchange pics (clothed ๐) but until then, I'll just say I'm lucky enough to be pretty/cute.
I'm also:
1. tall (for a girl i.e. 5'10")๐ฉ
2. super fit ๐๏ธโโ๏ธ๐๐ฅโก๐น
3. smart๐ง ๐
4. funny ๐
5. devoted ๐
6. good at cooking (almost never eat out or order)๐ฉโ๐ณ๐ฒ๐๐ฅ๐๐ฅ๐๐ฎ
7. And generally resourceful, dependable & intuitiveโ๐ฆธ
Which are all traits my brain finds attractive in a partner as well! But I'm also also:
- Bilingual (English & french)โ๏ธ
- weeb-ish โฉ๏ธ๐๐ก๐๐๐ฏ๐บ
- introverted/ a homebody ๐งธ๐ก๐
- somewhat overwhelmed by crowds or loud spaces (like car invested cities)๐คฏ๐ง๐ฃ
- a casual nature enjoyer ๐๏ธ
- & casual gamer ๐น๏ธ๐ฎ๐ฒ๐ฒ
- AND a true sugar fiend, fruits included!
๐ฉ๐ง๐ช๐ซ๐ญ๐ฎ๐ฐ๐จ๐๐ฅ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐
If I was into vanilla men and casual sex, I'd be all set, but the magic man in the sky that doesn't exist decided to fuck me over juuuuust a bit more and made me need a loving, nurturing Daddy Dom to feel anything in the bedroom. Which would be fine if they weren't like an endangered species around here!!!๐ง
Ok maybe I wouldn't be set since I do have a girlfriend of many years, whom I live with and love dearly, and not everyone is down with polyamory, which I get. ๐
But I'm not bisexual anymore (hormones are weird man). Instead I'm sexually-monogamous and only attracted to men. ๐จโ๐ง
Oh, and I'm also demisexual so even with a potential suitor, I need time to form a bond before I'm tempted to be bound.๐
But as much as I do value sex, it isn't my priority...or like...hmmm...
Basically, It's gonna matter down the line but I don't want to talk about sex a bunch before we've actually forged a connection that warrants those conversations. If you do have sexual deal breakers so to speak, like for example, needing your partner to be into diapers (I'm not), It's good to know early on so that we don't waste each other's time, but otherwise let's save the dirty talk for later.(หต โขฬ แด - หต ) โง
Because importantly for me, like many others, Ddlg extends outside of the bedroom in myriad wholesome ways that act as a necessary, reassuring bedrock for my arousal, vulnerability and submission to blossom from:
- I need my Daddy to enforce an early bedtime and tuck me in with my teddies, so I can wake up early and rested to tackle my goals, and eventually make Daddy proud. เป๊ฐเพเฝฒหตแดอ . แดอ ๊ฑเพเฝฒเงง แถป ๐ ๐ฐ
- I want my Daddy to make me food sometimes, and also show me new recipes we can make together. (เนแตโคแตเน)
- I want my Daddy to pick me up, and make me feel small and light (148lbs isn't too heavy right?) (โงโกโฆ) โก
- I want him to randomly grab me and pull me close. Dot on me and let me absentmindedly nibble his fingers while we cuddle. สโขอโฑโขอส
- I want a Daddy who teases me and let's me be a brat, and tease him back. แ( โขฬ แ โขฬ )แ
- I definitely **~~don't~~** want a Daddy to tell me to look both ways before I cross the street, or to text him when I reach my destination when I'm going out, or pick my clothes for me sometimes, and other stuff that makes me feel little in little ways. เซฎโ ห โค ห โแ
- I need a Daddy who calls me cute names like babygirl and princess and cupcake and pumpkin and puppy girl and puts the words "my" and/or "little" in front of them, along with many other nicknames. เป๊ฐเพเฝฒแต แต แต ๊ฑเพเฝฒเงง
- I need Daddy to sit me down and have me tell him why I'm acting out or being a brat to more than a playful degree. I need him to help me communicate my emotions clearly instead of bottling them up because I'm insecure and scared to verbalize them for all the usual reasons. (,,>๏น<,,)
- And of course, I want to make my Daddy happy!!! Whether it's giving him massages to relieve the tensions modern life tends to bring. Cook him some leftovers, or a fresh meal he can easily eat if he's particularly busy. Make him laugh. Make him smile. Make him take me for a walk if he's cooped up inside too much haha. I want to find out the things that make him happiest, and do my best to provide them for him! I love to please and feel like a good girl and be praised profusely as such เซฎ หถแต แต แตหถ แ
The list of specifics goes on, but they all boil down to a need for a mutually fulfilling long term relationship with an actual Daddy Dom that doesn't let me erase myself for his pleasure, but instead gives me the space to exist as my authentic self for him to genuinely love, nurture and cherish.
So if this wall of text resonated with you, and you're close to Eastern Canada, or have the will to relocate for the right person down the road, hit me up and let's chat! (โโ ึ โโ)
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