Hi! I haven't had to make one of these in a while, so forgive me if I say anything wrong. To get things started, I am a 30 year old guy living in Iowa, but I am more than open to long distance with the possibility of meeting in person/moving. I am not looking for strictly online, I am looking for a real full relationship and for me that includes quality time together and generally just being together. I'm kind of nerdy. I'm into comics, movies, video games, true crime and more. I've slowly started getting back into cooking, reading and drawing as well. All that being said, I still absolutely love being outdoors. Especially since I've started a weight loss journey recently. I would love to get more into walking and possibly even hiking, even if I do spend my work days on my feet all shift. Physically, I am 6'1 and as I mentioned I am a bigger guy who is losing weight. I am still very much body confident and comfortable in my own skin, however. I have fairly long hair, 9 tattoos and counting. I have my ears stretched ever so slightly, my nose lip and right helix pierced. I currently work as a barista, with plans to either move into management or go back to school. I still have to decide. I plan on moving in the near future, whether that be across town or across the country.

I'm switch, but I am primarily a daddy dom and caregiver. I love all aspects of it, from the kinky stuff to just having fun and living the dynamic. I realized long ago I am the type of partner who very much wants to not only love but take care of and always be there for my partner. I thought it was overbearing, but this lets me express myself the way I want to as a partner for someone who truly loves and appreciates it. I do have kinks, and they can always be discussed further later. But some of my favorites include praise, leaving marks, orgasm control, watersports, punishment and reward. These are all of course negotiable and by no means required. I also love cuddles, watching movies or shows, playing with your stuffies, hand holding and all the cute, not kinky aspects of it. I love honorifics and nicknames, when that point is reached and the trust is built. I have a fair amount of experience. My previous relationship of over 2 years involved the lifestyle, as did my one before that.

In a partner I am looking ideally for someone between mid 20s to mid 30s, as I am turning 31 myself in April. That said, outside the obvious of please be 18 at least, I am generally not one to let age play a big factor. I prefer closer to my age, but if a connection happens it happens. I like someone who would hopefully have at least somewhat similar interests as me, even if we don't share them all. As comfortable going out as we would be just staying in and being together. Someone who has the same thoughts and beliefs as me, because I stand by my beliefs very strongly especially on subjects like equality. Someone kind, who is honestly willing to deal with some trauma on my end. I am by no means asking for you to be used as my therapist, I have one of those. But I have some trust and abandonment issues so please be kind and patient. I am open to any and all. I will say, as a bigger guy I do tend to favor women who are shorter, but that by no means matters in the end. I have looks and styles I prefer above others, as we all do, but that again does not really matter in the end. Mutual attraction is always important, but I also very strongly believe in knowing and loving someone for who they are. If any of this sounds good, please feel free to message me. Tell me your favorite color so I know you've read this whole thing please. Mine is purple. (: