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Hii! My name is Jacen but most people call me Ja or Jay. Honestly you can call me whatever you like (respectfully). I’m a relatively new little, looking for a long-term (hopefully forever) cg to properly get to know and form a real connection with.

I love cuddles and little-space time, just as long as you still want to talk to me in normal-space too and have a laugh. Yes I love the CGL dynamic, I enjoy being looked after and treated special, and feeling loved ofc. But I’m not looking for JUST a CG. I want a real relationship.

I don’t want to jinx it by saying this, but I’m really looking for someone to fall in love with, someone I can talk to all night without running out if things to say. I rlly want to be able to have real conversations about anything and everything. Quality time is so important, being in touch with our own feelings and each others’. And also ofc laughing together about silly things.

About me:

Physically Im 5’5, with brown hair and a slim/kinda muscular build. And blue/grey eyes. (Feel free to ask if u want to see pics, but I might not always be in the right mindset to send)

Im a bit of a homebody tbh, I have friends but I don’t go out lots socially to clubs or anything. I much prefer staying in, but would still love having dates/adventures with someone special. I’m a bit of a big nerd for all the typical nerdy things, Sci fi, LOTR, Pokemon etc, plus I love history and nature.

In my free time I read quite a lot, and I love to draw and do crafts. Sometimes I play video games so I wld love someone to play cute stuff with on call. Minecraft/stardew/Pokémon/animal crossing, stuff like that, but this isn’t essential at all.

Also I love animals! I have a dog and she is pretty much my world. Plus a few stuffies I love.

I’ve been through some mental health struggles in the past, and still struggle with things sometimes, so wld love somebody open-minded about that kind of thing. I don’t want to put all my issues onto somebody, it’s not your job to be my therapist, but I’d rlly appreciate your support emotionally when I’m feeling low. And ofc I’m happy to try my best ti do the same for you, if you’re comfortable with that.

I’m sometimes not great at looking after myself so I’d love to find a cg who’s happy helping with my routine, maybe setting daily tasks or something. Im ok with being set rules if that’s something you’re interested in, but I can get sensitive if you’re too strict. I have a tendency to like shut down and block people out if I’m told off too much, and neither of us want that. I guess I’m just looking for someone caring.

I work a full-time job so can’t message all day but can message (and/or call maybe) most days in the evening. Once we get close I can be a bit clingy but it’s just cos I care a lot x

Ok, here’s the NSFW stuff:

I’m not in a big rush to get sexual, I think it’s probably healthier to form a bond first. But I wld need someone whos ok with me being flirty & dirty sometimes. I don’t mind if we never get into proper nsfw territory, but i can be naughty like that sometimes. There is no pressure to like sext or anything, I’m happy to totally go at your pace, I respect that it’s harder for some people than others to open up ab physical stuff. But I do have a fairly high sex drive once we get to that stage. Sexually I’m 100% a sub, I can sometimes be into very rough/K!&ky stuff (not that I’ve actually got much experience irl), but I don’t want to do anything you’re not comfortable with. It’s important to discuss these things beforehand so nobody crossed any lines. I don’t want to be SA’d, I just want us both to have an awesome time.

What I’m looking for:

• No pervs who are only interested in being sexual. Like I said I first and foremost want an emotional connection.
• Ideally someone around my age or older, definitely not over 40 or under 18.
• Someone ok with sending pics (once you’re comfortable, just to prove ur not a catfish). Im not super needy about specific pics Dw.
• I’m not fussy about body type or ethnicity, but I’d like someone who I’m attracted to facially.
• Please be fluent in English.
• Preferably i want someone in Europe so there’s not too much time-zone difference, but I’m open to people anywhere.
• Someone with a sense of humour and an open mind.
• I’m hoping for someone willing to make an effort - who won’t send only one word replies, won’t expect me to provide the momentum of every convo, won’t always take over an hour to reply, and won’t start my just saying “hi” or “I saw your post”.

As I say, feel free to dm if you’re at all interested in being my cg.