I'm looking for a little and sub to call my own. I'd love for her to be more than just a little or a sub but a combination of both but also a gf with the potential to become a wife. I want someone who understands the dynamic of the DDLG relationship but can also be big and perform her duties and responsibilities of being a girlfriend as well. I want a companion and a partner as well as a little/sub. I'd like someone who communicates and loves to do so. I believe communication is vital in a relationship. I don't like 1 word answers or conversations where I always have to initiate them. I want substance when you speak. I want to know all about my girl. Her habits, fears, dreams, fantasies, expectations, and random thoughts. I want to know about her life before me and what she wants with me. Also I'd like to know the mundane of the day such as random thoughts or what happened at work. I want for my girl to be excited to see me and talk with me as I am with her. I'd like to spoil her with love and affection, attention and care. I'd like for her to want to travel and explore the world. I do enjoy traveling (by car or plane) to various places and would hope she would as well. I want someone kind and sweet and attentive and thoughtful. Someone that likes structure and rules and knows how to serve and obey. I can be strict but I am pretty fair. I guide, protect, lead, assist, motivate, and influence you to being a better you and to promote the advancement of our relationship. Someone that wants to be guided and led through life. I want my woman to look to me for answers, for help, for guidance, for compassion, for love, for companionship, for acceptance, and many other things. I like littles that like onsies, pacis, sippies, and /or have stuffies, etc but if you don't have little gear or aren't into that then that's fine too.

My love languages are physical touch, quality time, words of affirmation, in that order. I'm an ambivert and my personality type is ESTJ. My enneagram is a 7 wing 8.

I love to feel on my woman. Hold her hand, cuddle her, have her lay on me or sit in my lap, or just touch her back when walking. Also I love to kiss frequently as well. I'm very big on affection, both physically and verbally. I want for us to go on adventures and explore the world but also explore each other on the inside as well. I want to fall asleep every night in each others arms.

I'm 38 and originally from New York. I'm 5' 7" 180lbs, slimmish build, brown eyes, black hair, Puerto Rican and African American. I'm currently in North Carolina (east coast time zone) but have lived all over the US (8 different states so far). I was in the Air Guard as an aircraft mechanic. I have my Bachelors degree. I also have an Associates in in Applied Science, plus schooling in Mechanical Engineering, Electrical Engineering, Industrial Maintenance, and I'm certified in Mechatronics. I work at American Airlines and I love my career. I do feel being fit and eating right is important. I walk each day at work and try to eat healthy but I don't work out as much as I used to. I want to live for a long time. I don't smoke, drink, or do any drugs of any kind and would prefer if my woman didn't either. I've never been into any of that. I also love technology and are a bit of a tech nerd. I enjoy watching TV and movies but I don't play video games anymore. I also watch anime as well (Dragonball Z and Super, FullMetal Alchemist Brotherhood, Cowboy Bepop, Attack on Titan, Steins Gate, Sailor Moon, One Punch Man, Archer, Rick and Morty, just to name a few). I do go to comic con conventions as well which are quite enjoyable to me. Marvel/DC, Star Wars/ Star Trek, Android/Apple, the paranormal, and sci fi are great interests of mine as is learning more about astrophysics, physics, the Earth (it's a globe and NOT a flat Earth), and all sorts of things really. I'm not big on politics nor am I into sports though.

I understand the weight of the role of being a DD. I like when a little/sub understands her role as well but more importantly takes it seriously. I don't want someone that gets into a relationship because they are bored or just wants to call someone "daddy" and then ghost. I want actual effort in the relationship. I'm not into diapers, blood, extreme pain, cutting, needles or knives, scat, or things like that. I am into anal, watersports, light bondage, cnc, exhibitionism, somnophilia, and some other stuff. I have a fairly high sex drive and would be described as very sexual. I also love to laugh and include humor in a lot of life. I have BDSM test scores and can send them if you'd like to see. Preferably looking for someone 25-45, white, hispanic, mixed, or Asian. Message me if any of this interested you and you think we'd be a good match.