So first off this will be a long post. I’m very open to who I connect with but at the same time want to be clear and detailed in who I am.

I am from Toronto but travel a good deal for work, mostly in Canada(Vancouver, Ottawa, Montreal) but some US cities. Someone in Toronto is my preference but I’m open to people from other areas of Canada. I love good food, travel, hiking and camping, you don’t need to love these things but they are important to me. I’m caring, gentle, kind, a great cook, love to snuggle and tease. I have a full time job that is really a job and a half but will make time for the right person. My availability is more during the day and early evenings, but I can make other times work for the right person. I am also not looking for anything too serious right now but that doesn’t mean I can’t take my time either as I am not in a rush. Although I’m not looking for anything serious I do prefer the time we spend together be monogamous in nature. Meaning if we are at a point of voice and video chats I will plan to only be talking with you. But just be open with me if this isn’t the case and we’ll discuss it. I’m separated after a long relationship and am exploring. We can discuss this in further detail if we connect and I think it’s important to have that discussion.

My main interests as far as this space and kinks are as follows: • ⁠Taking care of someone(not financially), including snuggling. • ⁠Guiding, teaching, learning and directing someone else in their kinks. • ⁠Praising (Giving) • ⁠Light humiliation. (Giving) I like to think of this as a bit more as teasing and being playful but can take it further if it’s what my partner is into. But I’m not into degrading humiliation.

I’m also very open to hearing about others kinks and discussing those openly. Discussing our kinks and desires as well as comfort level as we go is important. I’m open to a DL but do have a few boundaries in that space we can discuss if this is you.

I would like to get to know someone as a whole person, their adult self generally first followed by their little self or help you discover your little self. Im good with SFW. I’m honestly not into the fully sexual side of a CGL relationship. To me there is maybe a balance or place somewhere between Little Space and Adult Space where it can be more sexual, but not when a little is in their little space. If that makes sense. I am open to just making friends, hanging out, especially if it’s one of the areas I travel to but also open to more or anything in-between. Even a good occasional snuggle buddy would be wonderful. More open to age for platonic or shorter term, but ideally 30-40.

Please also be upfront with me on things that may affect the type of relationship you are looking for. Any baggage, ideal situations, likes, kinks etc. I feel good communication is important for all relationships but for something less serious as well as one involving kinks, good communication is a must. I want to ensure we’re on the same page and no one gets hurt. I’ve talked with a few amazing people through this space but also people that couldn’t communicate or put it all on me.

Looks and beauty are subjective. Everyone has their own likes and dislikes. I feel I’m decently handsome with a dad bod and a neatly trimmed beard. I’m very open to a wide variety of looks, also depends on what type of relationship we develop. As well sometimes a great connection can also make someone much more attractive. With that said I do like girls with a bit of a nerdy or geeky side. Glasses and a good smile can make me melt.

Even if I’m not exactly what you’re looking for or you don’t think you are what I’m looking for I’d still encourage you to say hello. Ideally say more than hello though, you know a lot about me now, please let me know a little about you. I will respond to anyone who reaches out.