hi there,

my name is ree. i’m 24 and live in northern minnesota. my pronouns are she/her.

yes, i’m cis and just told you my pronouns. let’s normalize it.

about me: i am an educated young professional with multiple degrees, working in sustainability. i am passionate about my work, but after working so hard through school, it’s time for me to step back and take care of myself. and i hope maybe you can help take care of me a little too?

my friends would tell you im empathetic, funny, caring, frank, self-aware, and can always find the good in any situation. if you are into meyers-briggs, i am an ENFP, but with the duality of being a very logical and rational person with a limited social battery.

im very tall, curvy, and have a bit of a tum and bum. my eyes are deep green, hair is light brown, and i have freckles. my nose and septum are pierced.

other things to know about me: i am a mom to a very handsome boy cat, he is my whole life. i love lavender lattes, and i do yoga. i’ve been into animal crossing lately and play the sims sometimes. i love sitcoms, quiet sunny mornings, and good green 🍃 i’m a strong leftist feminist with really bad compassion fatigue.

i do struggle with mental health and it currently impacts my day to day life. i have been in treatment for many years and have accepted that i have conditions that may be (and in some cases have been) lifelong. but in spite of that i get up (most days) and live my life. my mental health is a big part of me. my experiences have shaped who i am and the way i live my life.

i think the fact that i’m posting this is enough evidence that i’m open minded and kink friendly, but please do not message me if you’re going to be overtly sexual right off the bat. that’s a huge turn off and honestly sometimes feels like harassment. i’ll welcome these conversations when we are both comfortable.

i will be upfront and let you know i am in a very casual relationship with a friend i see every week or two. it is not serious, i honestly can’t even call him anything more than a good friend.

what i’m looking for: i am looking for someone to talk to and form a caregiving dynamic with. i want someone who doesn’t caretake out of obligation, but because they want to. i don’t have a lot of supportive people in my life right now and i am looking for someone who wants to be there for me when i need someone. i want someone who can appreciate my clingy moments and understand when i need some space to do my thing. open communication and high emotional intelligence are very important to me.

i am attracted to the nurturing daddy dom type. a mental and emotional connection is more important to me than a physical attraction. physical attraction is great, but every man is handsome in his own way.

i am open to chatting with anyone in the united states. it would be great if i found someone somewhat local, but i’m okay with some distance and maybe some planned visits?

i’d prefer to not get involved with anyone who is looking to cheat, but welcome anyone in a non monogamous relationship.

wow. i wrote a lot. i’m honestly sorry, but thank you. if you took the time to read all of this, i’d really like to hear from you. send me a thoughtful message with your go to coffee order and favorite thing about caregiving, so i know you made it this far.

🖤