Hello everyone,

Thank you for taking the time to read this. I've posted here with very limited success in the past and I'd like to tey again. From these experiences I've got a much clearer view on what to seek in a partner. So without further adieu.

Would you like to feel valued, appreciated and praised for being the center of your partner’s universe? Would you like to be with someone who would build a fairytale life for you, a place where there is no judgment, there are no lies or hidden intentions? A bubble from reality where your partner eagerly awaits you, arms extended, patiently awaiting your embrace and excited to spend time with you? A partner that is your rock amidst the roughest of storms and the sunlight that breaks the darkest clouds? Would you like to have someone by your side, always willing to take your hand and guide you in your adventures together?

If this seems like the kind of Dominant you want in your life, please keep reading. And yes… this isn't a joke. I am offering this to the right submissive.

I'd prefer to keep this less sexual as sex doesn't constitute a stable foundation for a dynamic. So if you're interested in a quick screw, keep it moving.

Im a 32 year old bisexual man from The Netherlands. I have deep blue eyes, brown hair and a dimple chin. I'm athletic and ludicrously strong. I work in a high stress line of work, I'm highly intelligent and happily independent.

I'm nerdy by default, I love to read (romance, fantasy and smut), I love botany and writing novels. I game (WoW, OW2, etc) and I love Tabletop games such as DnD and MTG. I also train for rugby 3 times a week so I have a fairly athletic frame. I'm trying to learn how to draw but I'm a train wreck (tips and advice are welcome). I'm a extrovert when I need to be but secretly staying home, cooking and watching a movie on a Friday night is my go to. Or reading… but that's just my inner bookworm showing. I'm known to be the guardian of my friend group. I usually order on their behalf, handle any threats or issues before its asked of me and in general my dominant nature has been the foundation of why my friends have always felt safe when I'm around. Beyond that I'm also the comfort my friends seek in difficult times, be it a breakup or trouble in life, my naturally nurturing personality has been something I'm extremely proud of… given the above, I feel that I'm naturally a fantastic Soft / Pleasure Dominant.

I have 8 years of in person BDSM/Kink experience (If its any constellation, its been 3 long term dynamics for that full 8 year period). I have experienced and explored tons of various kinks and fetishes… due to this… I know exactly what I'm looking for as well as how to be the best Dominant for my submissive. I've been single for 2 years, seeking the right type of person that I want by my side and at the end of my leash. Ehem. I'm extremely open to many kinks and dynamics and find that a powerful, unbreakable dynamic is founded on the desires of both Dominant and submissive, and its definitely not something to be rushed.

For all the submissives reading this: I understand submission, I understand surrender. It takes time, trust and comfort. I do not force or expect submissive behavior. I earn it. The same way I would earn my title as your Dominant. So please do not fear being yourself with me… I want to know you. All sides of you… even if you try to hide it out of fear.

Now. Into what I'm looking for. First off, experience isn't an issue, if you are new to kink and want to take a leap into something serious, I'm happy to take your hand and show you the beautiful world of kink, at an agreed upon pace. If you have experience, please know I will make you feel ways that your brain is going to blue screen and error 404 at. Your heart will fortunately follow suit.

I want simply: affection, commitment and willingness. Those three make a fantastic basis for a submissive, in my eyes.

I have a few major kinks that I feel embody a broad idea of what I'm looking for. Petplay, DDLG (Sexual kink NOT the regressive coping mechanism), Soft M/S, orgasm control (edging, denial, over stimulation) and lastly Free use soft cnc.

Obviously loving all of the above is RARE, so please don't see it as a checklist, I'm merely trying to give you an idea of what I find compatible with myself.

I'm drawn to feminine women, be it Alternative, Goth or simple Cutesy princess-esque. I'm a lover of piercings and tattoos so don't shy away because of those. I am mainly in search of a female submissive with an extremely high sex drive to match my own. I love neediness and tending to that neediness in all forms be it attention, praise or sexually. Please be able to hold a conversation and communicate. The pillars of a strong relationship are communication, trust and understanding. Have a need for those three and you're already starting with bonus points.

I do have a type for men, but I must say I gravitate entirely towards men that have a very feminine aesthetic, even better when I can't tell they are a male until they inform me. Can't help it, cute face, boobs and a penis ? It's hot. Pfft. Bite me. It's new to me.

If you've made it this far, please tell me your favorite ice cream flavor and a thesis of an introduction… And yes I will respond to anyone who puts effort into their response. Low effort messages will be ignored. Catching my attention is vital.

Willing to exchange pictures after we get to know each other a little bit.

I can't wait to hear from you.

P.S. IF THIS POST IS STILL UP, IM STILL SEARCHING FOR MY SUBMISSIVE.