Hi there!

This is my second post — I’m sorry if you replied to my first post and I didn’t respond. I was overwhelmed and realized I needed to include a few more details.

I’m 38 and ultimately looking for a monogamous, long-term relationship. I’m happy to begin online but would hope to move to in-person if we connected. I’ve never had a relationship with a caregiver dynamic but it’s something I would like to explore.

I’m looking for someone kind and patient, who is happy to go slowly as we explore this new-to-me dynamic. I’m not sure if I’m a little, a middle, or would simply like to be in a submissive role with a gentle caregiver. I’m drawn to the idea of feeling safe enough to let someone lead in the small daily decisions, and to build a relationship that fulfills both of us. [Edited to add that I’m ideally looking for someone in the 33-45 age range, although if you are outside of that but feel like we would really connect, please feel free to say hi!]

About me: - I have an anxiety disorder (managed with therapy and medication). - I’m vaccinated and politically progressive/left-leaning. - I’m an introverted homebody who usually prefers staying in to going out. - I love to read, journal, watch tv/movies/baseball, and spend time with the people closest to me. - I am not adventurous and travelling is hard for me with my anxiety. - I’m shy and quiet and can be awkward until I’m comfortable with you! Then I can be chatty and bouncy. - I ended a long term, non-traditional relationship in early 2023. - Communication is very important to me — I’d prefer to have awkward conversations than misunderstandings or assumptions. - I don’t know if I want to have children. - I’m short and squishy with pale skin, dark hair and glasses.

Right now I’d love someone to chat with about my day and theirs, and to simply cuddle while watching a feel-good show or movie. If any of this speaks to you please feel free to send me a message. ☺️