Hello to all the wonderful mommies, daddies, and everybaby out there,
My name is Alister and I am a 19-year-old transgender boy (FtM) who is eagerly searching for an online agere caregiver to help me explore my little space. As a trans individual, it is important for me to find a caregiver who is not only accepting of my identity but also understanding and supportive of it.
A little bit about myself - I wear diapers 24/7 due to a neurological disorder, and while I know this may be considered a turnoff by some, it is a part of who I am and I am unapologetically embracing it. When I enter my little space, I love nothing more than to indulge in activities such as coloring, watching cartoons, and snuggling with my beloved stuffies. It brings me a sense of safety and love, and I am looking for someone who can provide me with the guidance and care to fully explore this side of myself.
As I embark on this journey of finding an online caregiver, I am seeking someone who is patient, kind, and willing to take things slow as we get to know each other. Communication is key for me, and I am open to various forms of it - whether it be through messaging or voice chats. I strongly believe that building a strong connection and trust is crucial for a successful caregiver/little relationship.
In an online caregiver, I am hoping to find someone willing to set boundaries and rules for me, while also being able to enforce them when necessary. I need someone who can understand and support my needs, and who can guide me through my little space in a safe and nurturing manner.
In my ideal relationship, I value equality and mutual respect above all else. I do not believe in total domination or power exchange, as it makes me feel uncomfortable and goes against my values. I have had past experiences where I expressed this to a partner and they accused me of having trust issues, but I want to make it clear that my discomfort with TPE is not a reflection of a lack of trust in my partner.
I understand that in the ABDL community, there is a common belief that the caregiver, whether it be a "Daddy" or "Mommy," holds all the power. However, for me, this is not the case. I want to be in a relationship where I can freely express my wants and needs without fear of punishment or consequences. I believe in open communication and mutual decision-making, rather than one partner having complete control.
Being able to say no and have my boundaries respected is crucial to me. I do not want to feel pressured into anything or feel like I am giving up my autonomy in the relationship. I believe in a partnership where both parties have equal say and can make decisions together.
While my main focus is exploring my little space, I also have a range of other interests and hobbies that I am passionate about. When I am not indulging in my little activities, you can often find me lost in a good book or immersed in a video game. I am a big fan of fantasy and romance novels, and some of my favorite authors include Emily Henry, Sally Thorne, and Colleen Hoover. As for video games, I enjoy playing a variety of genres, from sandbox games like Minecraft to puzzle games like Portal.
Additionally, I find solace in spending time outdoors, whether it be taking a leisurely walk in the park or going on a challenging hike in the mountains. I also have a great love for animals, particularly dogs and cats, and I am fortunate to have two cats and a dog of my own.
I am currently a first-year college student, similar to many others my age. As a result, I may not always be able to respond to messages promptly due to my busy schedule. This is because I am often attending classes or dedicating my time to studying. I apologize for any delays in my responses. Currently, my workload is quite heavy as I am pursuing a double major in History and English. This can be overwhelming and stressful at times, which is why I am seeking support from a mentor figure, such as a "Daddy," to help me cope with my academic responsibilities and alleviate some of the stress I experience.
I am currently employed as a part-time Jeweler, and I am passionate about creating couples rings. I find great joy in seeing couples selecting the perfect rings that I have carefully crafted. My job is both fulfilling and enjoyable.
In addition to my work, I share an apartment with a roommate who also wears diapers. However, I am not sure how often they wear them. We occasionally take photos together in our diapers, which is always a fun experience. I have a feeling that my roommate may be looking for a "daddy" figure, but I cannot say for certain. If you are interested in talking to my roommate as well, I can provide their discord information. Please note that I am not interested in finding AB/DL siblings, so please do not ask us to be siblings.
If you think you may be the online caregiver for me, please do not hesitate to send me a message. I am excited to get to know you and see if we are a good fit for each other. Sorry that my post is long I just wanted to fit as much detail as possible. Thank you for taking the time to read my post.
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