Hi everyone, I'm an experienced DD looking for a Little/Middle to explore building a real world relationship with.
In the interests of openness and honesty, I'll lead with my current relationship situation as is may be a red flag for a lot of people: I am currently going through divorce proceedings to end a 14 year (non-DDLG) marriage. I''ve been involved in DDLG for over 20 years, but my things ended with my long Little about 20 months ago. (No cheating involved - My ex-wife knew about my relationship with her, accepted it and regularly invited her to our house). As a result, I am adjusting to single life again and realising that I am missing the deep friendship and emotional connection that comes with DDLG relationships. Being a Daddy - nurturing, cherishing, guiding and protecting a Little - is such a fundamental part of who I am that I feel lost and adrift without it in my life.
I'm 46, live in south Hampshire, work full time in the training sector and am financially stable. I definitely fall into the nerdy category of hobbies and interests - D&D, board games, occasional video games but also enjoy outdoor stuff like hiking and camping. Recently I've been trying to learn to draw as well. I'm 5'11, in reasonable shape, although with a bit of a 'Dad bod' these days, drink socially, don't smoke or do drugs.
I'm looking for a relationship where I can offer support, help, encouragement and advise to my Little. I want to cheer you up when you have had a bad day, celebrate with you when life is good and help you find your inner strength and confidence when you doubt yourself. I also want a Little who takes an interest in me, not just what I can offer you.
I want to hear about your stuffies, see pictures you draw, have movie nights together, read you bedtime stories and talk you to sleep. I expect the relationship would start with just text messages, but hopefully progress to photo sharing, voice calls/video calls as we get to know each other more and then real life meetings. I'm happy travelling a bit, but please be close enough to Hampshire/southern England to make real life meetings feasible.
Obviously you need to be 18 but I would definitely prefer a Little closer to my age. Although I would prefer someone single, I don't mind what your relationship situation is, as long as you have time and energy to focus on us, and aren't cheating on someone else.
Personality, shared interests and good communication are far more important to me than physically appearance.
I am looking for a real world, long term relationship with a sexual aspect although that doesn't have to be part of the DDLG dynamic. Sex is never the most important thing in a relationship but it does need to be part of a healthy relationship for me.
If you are still reading, thank you 😂 If you think that we could be right for each other, drop me a message 😊
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