Before diving into the deep end, let’s be upfront about what we’re both looking for to see if we match:

Dynamic & Roles

Defining our dynamic is something that will evolve naturally as we get to know each other. I'm a switch but lean towards a nurturing, mentor-like role – someone who geeks out about you, is your calming force and a guide. However I’m not seeking a one-sided kink/cg dynamic as I believe it's important switch roles to maintain relationships long-term.

I have an analytical mind and a problem-solving nature which pulls me towards the vibrant and intense. If you're more needy/clingy or have special needs due to your life being coloured by ADHD/BPD, I'm happy to accomodate you and be your anchor of stability! That said love through pain isn’t really my style so masochists and people yearning for someone strict and disciplinary need not apply.

I'm hypophantasic so I don't really have a lot of mental imagenery or intrusive thoughts and honestly my head is blank most of the time. Meaning I do find myself enjoying the company of someone with an active imagination. It would allow me to vicariously live through you while you daydream and are afloat yet you have that string that ties you back to earth and grounds you. Lastly I aim for an authentic, vulnerable and organically developed connection. I'm not really interested power for power's sake, moreso the potential to heal and grow as individuals and as a couple.

Some Interests & Hobbies

• Psychology and mental health: You could probably tell from above that I'm pretty obsessed with this. I can offer you my understandings and insights. Whether you need a listening ear, a shoulder to cry on, or a gentle nudge, I'm here for you, both emotionally and cognitively.
• Philosophy and spirituality: I enjoy exploring life's mysteries and having meaningful conversations. I love listening to different perspectives and beliefs and I prefer dialogues over debates as I'm kinda allergic to dogmatic, polarising and black and white thinking. The non fast food version of Astrology has been of a rabbit hole I delved into lately. We could find out what the stars have in store for us 😂
• Tech and gaming: I'm a talking wiki when it comes to computers and technology as that's my major and what I did most of my life growing up. I don't really play competitive games anymore but I still like the social aspect of playing co-op games together like Stardew Valley and Minecraft, especially with tech mods where I can build and program things. Maybe we can collaborate on some projects or play some games together. Lately I've been trying to make music via code, it's wild!
• Alternative, J-fashion, Anime, Cosplay: I have a keen eye for details and I'm a big fan of expressing yourself and wearing your heart on your sleeve in general. I love romantic, cute, goth, elegant coords and gyarus make me melt. What are your tastes?
• Voice and music: I used to be a sound engineer, voice actor and have the whole studio mic and set up. My voice range goes from throat singing to uwu and I get accused of using a voice changer whenever I pull it off haha. My default is a deeper voice with a polish-irish accent. I also enjoy listening to and making music, and play a few eccentric instruments you've probably never heard of. I can show off or teach you some tricks sometime.
• Cooking, healthy living and DIY: I haven't eaten artificial sugar for the past decade and challenge myself to reinvent and take apart the small things in life we take for granted. I got into making my own soda drinks from scratch, 3d printing my own keyboards and making an EEG sleeping mask to figure out my sleep needs once and for all.

If you've read this far, thank you for your time and attention. You're already special and pretty rare to me, and I'm curious about you. I wonder what you're thinking and what you want to know about me too. Maybe you're wondering why I don't want to have kids, how I sound or look like, or what my favourite colour is.
Well, let's talk! I'm looking forward to hearing from you. 💕