A normal, high functioning adult who happens to be browsing reddit at the same time that my post is current. I live in Tennessee, so I’d prefer some drivable distance, 4-6 hours. I need to be touched, hugged, and/or petted on a regular basis. I have a priority kink. I’m only interested in single males who have a desire for a long term monogamous relationship. I want to be cherished, loved, teased, and tortured. I have a multifaceted personality. There’s a little side waiting for the time and patience of a Daddy Dom to bring it to fruition.. but it’s not my dynamic baseline. As such I have little experience in that area, but I’d love to explore it with the right person. I’m college educated, just feeling settled in my career. I play video games very casually, I read a great deal, dabble in the arts and crafts, and enjoy cooking. I love the outdoors and I will avidly wonder at nature or people watch from a corner. I’m an idealist but recognize the extremes of this as mostly fantasy. Logic prevails 🖖🏻. I have a mind, I use it. I value conversation and philosophical debates as much as I enjoy after care, date nights, and cuddling. Kinks: your attitude and desire. All of the kinks in the world have little effect if the way they are applied doesn’t embody an ultimate desire to control and own. You just can’t help yourself. My vanity or insecurity, loves attention. I enjoy some micromanaging. Though, I recognize this is energy and time demanding of my partner, I’d prefer it to be slowly used as training in one or a few things at a time. I’m into: submissive training, mantras, and the edging that comes with that, but you don’t have to be. It can be a tool for any Dom. Otherwise my kinks include: submission, bondage, spanking (different areas), breath play, hair pulling, gags, drooling, oral fixation, anal manipulation, orgasm control.. the list goes on. There are few things that are a hard pass for me-scat, beastiality, blood and extreme torture. Those are all safety concerns. I prefer a one-one situation for the same reasons, multiple partners with multiple partners can be a loaded gun. Me: I’m 5 10’ lean build, pale with freckles, my hair is auburn (it isn’t natural), grey to blue to green eyes. You: 35-48 M, looking for a long term sub to begin online but ultimately irl. Syfy/fantasy nerd who values the duality of the relationship. I need to find your mind and intention attractive.