It’s a polar vortex out there, stay in and chat with me instead!

Before we get started: poly folks: please understand that I am monogamous and you won’t change my mind. I’ve heard it all before. I’m located in Whatcom county and am hoping to find someone in Whatcom, Skagit, or Snohomish county. Long distance hurts my touch starved heart, so if you’re not in the north western part of Washington please don’t message me unless you think we would be universe shattering, once in a life time levels of compatible. I wish you well out there!

I don’t feel like I fit very well into any of the sub boxes. I have little tendencies but I don’t want to role play as anything younger than I am. I have slave tendencies but I don’t want to be demeaned or treated like an object. I suppose I want to be hoarded like a dragon’s treasure. I want soft tender moments as much or more than I want harshness. I want the depth of emotional and physical intimacy than can only come when two people are completely vulnerable and honest with each other. I want to be the most special thing in my Dom’s life and be cared for accordingly. And in return my Dom would be the most special thing in mine. It’s hard to explain, but I’m happy to expand on it if you’re interested. I’m looking for a monogamous long term relationship that will lead to marriage and growing old together.

A little about me: I’m a college student with more hobbies than time in the day. My main ones right now are sewing and knitting. Also ice skating, which you can see on my profile. I dress somewhat eccentrically, and it’s important to me that my partner is secure enough to handle that. I’m child free with the caveat that I might feel different at some point, but probably not. Appearance wise I’m white, dark blonde, blue eyes, on the chubby side of average. I’m an introverted homebody but I’m always down for fun outings! I like exploring local spots and taking classes to pick up unusual skills.

Some of my kinks include praise, rules, bondage, rope play, cgl, M/s, size difference, man handling, orgasm control, and I have some fantasies based around history and historical clothing.

Hard limits: gross bodily fluids, humiliation and degradation, most forms of edge play

A little about you: I’m looking for someone who is gentle, patient, nurturing, and kind. Someone who is firm but fair. There’s nothing hotter than being put in my place while being made to understand it’s because my Dom cares about me and wants what’s the best for me. I want to feel safe and protected and cared for. And I’ll do my best to make sure you feel that way too!

On the none kinky side, I’m looking for someone who is willing to try new things with me. I’ve always wanted someone to learn swing dancing with! Bonus points if you have a creative hobby! If you decide to message me, tell me what you’ve been doing during this cold snap. Do you think you’ll be snowed in tomorrow?