Hi there! I'm a 29 year old pansexual Dominant-type male. Well educated, nerdy, car, all that jazz (my career is up in the air a bit currently, but I am an ex-teacher and currently working on transitioning to front end web development). I have a large body type, big thighs, big arms, and broad shoulders. I am about 5'11 in height. I'm literally built like a bear, with body hair too! Now that the boring stuff is out of the way:

I'll start off by saying I've been into online kink communities for a long, long time. In fact, the reason I am returning to this subreddit is that my previous partner (whom I met off here and will remain anonymous) and myself have mutually agreed to end our dynamic and be platonic friends as we are not compatible.

Unlike most of the folks on here who are scared to have their kink and their normal reddit accounts entwined, I have elected to voluntarily do so. One of my reasons for doing this is so my prospective partners can see what kind of person I am. I encourage anyone interested in this post to peruse my posts and comments to make a decision if they think I'm a good fit for them. You'll probably see things you like, you'll probably see things you don't like, and that's okay. I try to be active in kink-related subreddits and I'm very open about my thoughts on certain topics.

I have played and had numerous online partners, but only one IRL encounter. The majority of my experience is in DD/LG (or DD/LB) and CG/L, but I also have a lot of experience in harder kinks & degradation, even those related to trauma or abuse, if you are interested in exploring that in a safe way.

I am more than happy to be both a sickly sweet father figure and/or a sadistic father figure depending on what you're into. I am interested in nearly every kink you can think of, and I'm happy to share my limits and interests in greater detail if you're interested in getting to know me.

As a former teacher, I have to be very careful with my identity, and I will only share personal information and pictures of myself if we hit it off. I have had some very unpleasant experiences with stalking and harassment which I do not wish to repeat.

As far as partners, I am open to any genders/orientations and I am trans friendly (I am very sorry but I am not interested in trans folks who are post op bottom surgery, top surgery is fine). I am not looking to play with any couples or with anyone in a relationship/dynamic. In previous posts I should have been more blunt about this, but I am seeking a partner who presents andro or fem in appearance, or at least isn't extremely masculine. Gender is irrelevant to me and I don't care much about what's between your legs. My previous partners have been: cis men, cis women, ftm, mtf and nb.

Sex workers are welcome and I have no issue with that line of work, but I am extremely uninterested in paying money or a sugar daddy/sugar baby dynamic. Anyone soliciting content to me for money will be blocked.

My goal in posting this is to either find someone who lives in South Carolina or is willing to at least travel to meet after we get to know each other. Online dates and dynamics are fine in the short term but are not a long term goal of mine.

What I like to do in CG/L:

I've decided to add this section to give prospective partners a better idea of what I like to do in these relationships. So here goes:

I really enjoy setting rules and punishments. These may be sfw or nsfw in nature. In previous dynamics I have used the obedience app to keep track of my little's chores/tasks to ensure they are doing what I want them to do.

Some rules/tasks I like to enforce may involve: self care, cleaning, bedtime, intake control (eating, drinking, etc), things nsfw in nature (daily edging, naughty pictures for me, orgasm denial, chastity, daily spanks, and more), writing tasks (both sfw and nsfw), and more.

Some punishments may include: spanking, writing lines, corner time, losing privileges (tv, gaming, youtube, etc), orgasm denial, and more.

Some rewards I've given may include: spanking (it can be a punishment and a reward!), orgasms, 'tributes' (if you know you know), bedtime stories, writing tasks for me (you ask me to write you something like a poem or a story, maybe naughty in nature), physical rewards that i buy for you (usually something cheap like stuffies or sometimes toys both sfw and nsfw, just to reiterate I am not a sugar daddy), an activity you really want to do with me (gaming time, watching anime together, cuddles, whatever you want).

In general I have a strong proclivity for the 'creative' aspects of CG/L, like drawing, coloring, writing, etc. I really enjoy getting things like handwritten letters, notes, or hand-made drawings. These things genuinely mean a lot to me and it's an easy way to win me over and make me want to dote on you.

My expectations of you:

Be communicative, tell me if you're not doing well, understand the basics of building a relationship. It's okay if you are new to kink, we can talk about it and explore things together.

Understand consent and boundaries. I am not going to play the guessing game with what is or isn't okay with you. Anyone with 'no limits' will be immediately ghosted as it's a foolish, immature thing to say and proves that you have absolutely no idea what you are doing.

Willing to put in a serious effort to follow any agreed upon rules or tasks and compromise where necessary. If you start ghosting me with no warning I am going to ghost you in return and seek out someone else.

Have the same interests as myself. Honestly, my entire life is nerdy things. Anime, gaming, math, science, programming. It's what I like. 95% of my life outside of work is spent indulging these hobbies or working out. If you view these as "childish" or "immature", I frankly do not care. Move along.

Be willing to talk to me regularly on camera or voice chat. I would like some sexual interaction, but my primary interest in this dynamic is non-sexual in nature. Tell me about your day. Tell me about what you want from me. Tell me how good it feels to give me control. Tell me whatever you want. I want to be both your friend & your dominant, and I want you to be my friend & submissive.

Be willing to verify your age with some form of ID before we enter a dynamic. This is non-negotiable at this point for me, I am beyond tired of people lying about their age to me.

I don't mind an age gap, and it's perfectly fine if you are young (18 ), but please nobody over 40. It's hard for me to get into the right headspace if you are much older than me.

Absolutely no hard drug users. I don't mind if you indulge alcohol, marijuana, tobacco, vaping, etc. but you should know I very rarely drink (~5 times a year at most) and haven't smoked marijuana in ~7 years. I am not a party person. I don't do bars, I don't do clubs.

I'd love to know what your expectations of me would be! Feel free to introduce yourself in a message. I reply to almost everyone.