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I'm Mug, a 28-year-old Middle, currently working as a manager from my cozy home office. Sharing my space with a playful kitten keeps the workdays interesting. Physically, I'm on the shorter side (160cm) with a bit of charm in my chub (92kg). Short black hair, black eyes, and glasses – that's me. Currently working on growing out my hair! I like reading, knitting, cuddling with my kitten, and drawing ladies. My favorite games are Genshin Impact, Stardew Valley, and Graveyard Keeper. And when it comes to music, I lean toward the soothing sounds of Synth/Vaporwave and Instrumentals of various ethnicities. I also like Pilates and cycling, but only when I manage to wake up early; I’m quite scared of cycling near strong traffic. I'm a bit on the shy side, and sometimes I struggle with keeping up in relationships because I tend to retreat into my bubble.

I'm seeking someone who understands that, someone I can share the small joys of life with without fear of judgment. I'll admit, I can be a bit needy and introverted, craving attention – be it playing games together or just having a chat. Communication is a must. Even if it's just talking about the weather, I cherish your attention. Most of the time I will hesitate to reach out, fearing I'm a bother, but I genuinely want to connect. Trust me, I'm not ghosting you, I just don’t know what to say.

About my Middle side, I don't have a need for pacifiers or diapers. I prefer proper language; however, I do appreciate comfort, soft-spoken words, and regular check-ins. I am fond of pastel colors and dresses with ruffles (and a serious dot pattern obsession). I hope for open communication, shared interests, and a sense of comfort. Conflict resolution, to me, means having honest conversations, and I believe in addressing concerns with care. Boundaries are essential, and I hope to establish daily routines, for I’m seriously forgetful. On my "bed days," when getting out of bed is a challenge, having a caring presence makes a world of difference. If you’ve read this far, and are interested, send me a private message and tell me if you have a pet.

I’ve never had a Caregiver before, so I appreciate having some guidance in this dynamic. Whether it's a close connection or a long-distance thing, I'm open to either. I'm honest about my struggles with depression and anxiety, hoping to find someone understanding, someone who can provide some support, set rules, and help me take care of myself. If long-distance, I hope we can plan for meeting further down the line. I don’t mind if you are in a relationship, as long as you’re not cheating on someone and have the time for us. Please be financially stable; I have no interest in those still struggling to get out of their parents’ home. Nothing against you if you are; I overcame that struggle not long ago, I know how it is. But I’d rather not worry about having parents around to judge. The “why” is a long conversation I’m still having with my therapist. I’m not looking to be financially supported. With two jobs and some side gigs, I can pay my bills, don’t worry. Won't refuse if you want to gift me something, though.

A sexual relationship isn't a priority for me, though if it naturally heads that way, I'm open to a monogamous relationship (and since I work home-office, I’m willing to relocate if we get to that point). I must warn you, my medications make this aspect very difficult for me. I do have a kink list if you’re curious. I don’t care about age or gender, but preferably above 25 and below 50. Please be fluent in English. Portuguese is a bonus, but not an obligation. Time zone difference sucks, but I'm willing to connect with anyone, anywhere. No drugs, except medically prescribed. Here’s a disclaimer that I don’t want any kids and likely cannot have any, so if that’s a dealbreaker, consider yourself warned.

What I'm after is something I've read a lot about – having someone who cares about me, and I care in return. Someone who guides me to be a better version of myself. I want to share everything with you, and you with me. I want to be excited when I get a message from you. Creating a real, lasting bond with someone, even if we never meet, is what matters most. I don't mind if the relationship stays platonic; it's about the emotional connection. I want to get to know you, have funny or deep or silly conversations; I like listening to how people spent their days, what they plan to do, what they ate… If you tell me something that I don’t know what it is, I’ll ask you about it instead of using Google, because it’s an opportunity to chat with you. Down the line I’d like to voice chat, trade pictures, maybe. If you’ve read this far, and are interested, send me a private message and tell me if it snows where you are? I’ve never seen snow.

I suffer severe anxiety over the chatting process, so the chat function is disabled. Private messaging is less immediate and doesn’t give me much anxiety, so I’m favoring that for now.

I am hoping I'll find someone who will be as excited about me as I am about them. That you’ll be someone who’ll make an effort to talk to me, not send one-word replies or just “okay” or “yeah”, and that won’t ghost me. If you stop talking to me for a long period with no reason, I won’t chase you. I’m not that desperate.

Please keep it respectful – no inappropriate image requests or pushing boundaries.

Thank you for considering, and I'm looking forward to the possibility of building a connection with you, friendship or otherwise!