I'm Mug, I'm 28, and I work as a manager, home office. I have a kitten named Nanda who likes to scare me when I'm working. My hobbies are eating, watching movies, reading, and doing knitting, crochet, or needlework. And biking! (Or is it cycling?) I've finished school this year and my goal for 2024 is to become better in body and mind, and so I'm here looking for someone to help me become a better version of myself.

I'm short and chubby, but not very chubby, I have very short black hair and black eyes, and I wear glasses. Some chub is never going to go, unfortunately, no matter how much I bike. It's okay, though~

I'm very shy and struggle to maintain relationships because I tend to sink into my bubble and avoid communication. I like structure, making lists, ticking off my checkboxes. I don't have much going on in my life aside from work and some side projects nowadays. I'm looking for someone I can lean on, someone to talk to about the little things in my life, someone who won't judge me.

My favorite past times are reading, cuddling with my kitten and drawing anime girls on my computer. Some games I like to play are Genshin Impact, Stardew Valley, Graveyard Keeper... I like doing jigsaw puzzles and doing handicrafts, like crochet, knitting, and needlework. About music, I like most types of music, but I tend to favor Synth/Vaporwave (Ace Marino, Fury Weekend, Essenger...) and Instrumentals (Sufi Music, Arabic music, Lo-Fis...).

I don't feel the need to suck on a paci or to wear a diaper, I don't do baby talk, and I like to write properly. I do want to be comforted and be spoken to softly, be checked on often. I want to wear pretty dresses and bows and be told I've done well. I'm hoping that we can call and maybe video chat sometime down the line? But please, don't ghost me. If you don't want to talk to me anymore, just say you don't want to.

== I don't care about gender or age. I don't like aggressive/demeaning/humiliating behavior. ==

I suffer from depression and anxiety, and I take medication for those. It's very important that I take them every day, but sometimes I forget. I'm looking for someone to take care of me, to set rules, to help me take care of myself. Some days I don't even get out of bed.

I feel I must stress that this is my first time trying to find a Caregiver. I've never had one, be it in person or online. I am also not looking my best at the moment. If that is a dealbreaker for you, it's best to let you know now. I am pretty when I take care of myself, but it's been too long since I've been able to. I've gained weight and kept my hair short trying to keep myself together.

The sexual aspect of this relationship is not a priority for me. I don't mind if you want this relationship to be more sexually inclined, I only stress that it's not what I'm looking for. If it naturally comes to that point, it's great. I have a strong libido anyway. But my primary concern is care, not kink.

I am looking for a committed relationship, preferably monogamous. I expect this to be a long distance relationship. Communication to me is very important. I am needy and prone to entering long silences where I question if I'm bothering people by wanting to talk to them. Very often I feel like I'm burdening people, so it's more likely that not that I'll hold back on talking to you because I don't want to be a bother. I want to talk, even if I don't have anything to say. We can talk about the weather, I don't care. I just want to have your attention.

I've also discovered this Subreddit offers a kink list, here's mine: [https://kinkli.st/zp3PC\](https://kinkli.st/zp3PC)

I hope I have given you some idea of me. Leave a message or a comment if you'd like to know me more. If you've read so far, start your message by saying if it snows where you are!

Thank you for reading. I hope we can find our special people soon.