"If you don’t take risks, you can’t create a future!" -Luffy (I am monogamous and trans women are women!)

I'm a 32 year old nerdy Soft Dom/Caregiver living in Tennessee. I don't mince words. I prefer to be direct and to the point. Time is something we never know how much we have. So I don't intend to waste mine or yours here. I'm looking for someone to love. Someone to build a future with. Someone that when my time does run out I can look back and think fondly on the time spent with them. So if you are not ready to take the time build a relationship and fall in love then you can stop reading here. I wish you the best but this post isn't for you.

AS A DOM/CAREGIVER

I have been a Dominant and Caregiver for 14 years. At default I am a soft Dom but over the years I have become what I call an "Adaptable Dominant". This means my style of Dominance changes to meet what my partner needs. I have no set likes when it comes to kinks but I do have set limits but we can discuss kinks more in private once we get to know one another.

As a Caregiver I am patient and gentle. As easily adaptable as I am while being a Dom. I pride myself of listening to and learning the needs of my partner and doing my best to provide.

These roles are part of who I am. A big part. It's not something I can just turn on and off. It is always on but gently weaved into who I am as a person. Which leads me to.

WHO AM I AS A PERSON?

I am a kind, gentle and honest person. I treat everyone with kindness and respect if they allow me to. My greatest virtue is patience. I am just a chill person. I don't get mad or annoyed easily. I prefer to react with patience and understanding. Arguments solve nothing but open and clear communication can.

My day to day is filled with work, video games and anime. Just nerd things in general. I'm currently trying to get a D&D group together and get into the expensive hobby of the Warhammer 40k table top. Haven't pulled the trigger on that one yet though. I enjoy all kinds of video games, anime, music and even food. I try my best to give things a chance before deciding I don't like them. My only real fear in life is dying with regrets. So I take chances when presented.

I've never been good at talking about myself but I'm a simple guy. Happy with the simple joys in life. I've never been one for grand ambitions. I have a good job, I own a home and land and I have the time to enjoy my hobbies. All I'm really missing is someone to enjoy this simple life with. Which brings me to you.

WHO ARE YOU?

I don't care about religion or race or hair color or anything like that. I care about your character. Are you kind when you can be? Are you quick to laugh and open with who you are and what you want and need? That's what I care about. All I care about physically is that you aren't super heavy. I'm not exactly thin myself. I fit right into "dad bod" territory but I'm working on living a healthier lifestyle. Working out and all that. So I would like a partner who can motivate me to be healthier and get fit. I want as long as possible with my future partner. So we gotta get fit. ;P

In case it wasn't obvious I am an introvert and a homebody. I do enjoy going out to eat or to the mall or movies now and then but most the time I prefer to be home. So I would like my partner to also be an introvert. A fellow nerd that can share in my hobbies and me in theirs. :) The healer to my tank if you will. :P (I know that's cliche but it's cute,sue me)

THE END?

Well I feel this has gone on long enough to be detailed enough to give you a good sense of who I am and what I am looking for. Of course I haven't included every little detail about me. So if you have questions please feel free to shoot me a message. I have Discord if you prefer to chat there just let me know. If you have read this far I hope you are doing well and continue to do well. If that's what you deserve at least. :P