Hello. I am an AFAB nonbinary person looking for a male or transmasculine Caregiver.

As a person, I find myself hard to market to people. Identity is something I have struggled with my whole life. I have an—honestly—unnecessary amount of baggage that I am doing my very best to handle like a big girl. However, finding who I am outside of my lived-experience has been difficult for me and it is why I have been single my entire life. I was always too scared that I would be too much for someone and I am getting to a point where I am sad that I keep pushing my own emotional needs to the side for fear of being a burden.

I love singing and I am learning how to play guitar, even if I am not very good at it! My favourite colours are tied between blue and green. I paint landscapes when I have the time and am, overall, a very creative individual. I also love animals. I have a black cat named Crepes and three tarantulas. My dream would be to one day open an animal sanctuary so that I could let old or retired show animals like dogs and horses live out the rest of their days in comfort and peace. My taste in music spans the gamut of folk music artists like Gregory Alan Isakov and rock bands like A Perfect Circle.

As a little, I have not been able to explore myself as much. I have been with many Dominants in the past where they were uninterested in pursuing that aspect outside of our already established dynamic. I have a collection of things—mostly pacifiers—to get me into the headspace but, aside from that, I have never been able to experience the much needed structure and comfort being with a Caregiver provides.

I am unquestionably kinky. CGL is quite tame in comparison to the advanced level of play I have done; caning, CNC, genital torture, and orgasm denial. This is actually why I am going out of my way to seek a CG/L dynamic. It is great if you are a Sadist and enjoy everything I just mentioned (in fact, I would prefer it!) But, primarily, I want someone to be gentle with me. I want Daddy to drag me out to his woodworking shed to punish me when I misbehave but I also want Daddy to pull me under the covers, kiss my forehead and keep me safe and warm from the monsters in my life.

Lastly, unless you happen to be local to me, I would be mostly seeking a relationship with you online. If we connect well-enough, I would want a relationship where we could discuss moving things to IRL. Finding someone who fits my criteria of being both emotionally-available and kinky is more important to me than someone simply being in my area. I promise you: I will take you seriously. I expect the same in return.

If you have made it this far, tell me in your initial message what your favourite genre of music is!

Have a great rest of your day 🩷