Hi,
I am the kind of person that enjoys hugs more than kissing, and cuddling anytime we watch movies, play video games, or listen to music together.

My ex used to do this thing where she would use my chest as a pillow, and she would bury her face in my chest like how a cat rubs its scent on you. Then we would wrap the sheets over us and she could just sigh and disassociate. She always said it made her feel safe.

I just want more of that.
That and head scratches, back rubs, gentle caressing (for both of us). That, plus night-drives for snacks while blasting vaporwave/synthwave/synthpop, urban exploration. Movie nights (both in-bed, on a couch, or in theater. Music nights (record shopping, live events, stand-up shows, listening in bed).

Love Language etc:
Physical Touch
Quality Time
Words of Affirmation

Music:
I like IDM/Experimental Techno, Breakcore, Surf Rock, Quiet Storm / Motown, 80s Synthpop, Yacht Rock, Synthwave, Vaporwave.

Movies/TV:
I like Comedy, and Sci-Fi, (specifically, Sci-Fi, about Robots, AI, VR, Dystopia, Dreams, Memories, Time Travel... and less about Aliens, Space Travel, Ghosts, Vampires, Zombies, Horror, Anime).

Radio/Podcasts/Youtube.
I am an "Oldtime Radio" buff (think radio Dramas like Dragnet, Hitchhikers Guide, etc..).
Beau of the Fifth Column, Big Joel, Legal Eagle, VeryTallBart, BadGear, ContraPoints, PDS, YMH, Chapo Traphouse.

I'm not materialistic. I don't care about gifts, money or status.
I do not have a "wanderlust". I do enjoy road-trips, and night drives, especially with a partner. But travel is not my #1 way to relax and wind-down.

Relationship Style - CG/Dd LG etc....
It should be noted that, while I'm ideally looking for a long-term relationship, I'm not looking to get married, have kids (I've had a vasectomy), or move-in together.

I am not opposed to age gaps (me being older, you being younger) In fact, I would prefer to date someone in their late twenties/early thirties.

I'm not really looking for age regression (at least not involving diapers, baby talk, tantrums, bottle feeding etc) So I am really looking to be more of an emotional support Caregiver/Daddy with my Little's little-space age being closer to late teens.

Essentially, I want to be a shoulder to cry on, a chest to lay on. I want to be your big cuddly Teddy Bear. Maybe I can be your chauffeur if you don't have a car or don't like driving. Maybe you just went through a divorce or a breakup (like I went through a breakup 1.5 years ago) and you just want a kind and physically affectionate guy who is fun to be around, non-aggressive, reliable, emotionally attentive, patient, optimistic and can be the Caregiver you need when you have had a hard day at work, or school, or just life in general.
I want to alleviate any loneliness you have, and in doing so, alleviate my loneliness in the process.

(editors note: I was responding to a question last week re: what I am looking for in a Caregiver role, and the topic started to stear towards fetish, and specifically what CG/DD/LG, and I had to admit that I am not approaching these roles from a fetish mindset. While I am a highly highly se><ual person once we are comfortable with each other... I am not looking to be a Caregiver because it's a turn-on. I am looking to be a caregiver because I like to feel needed. Like I am someone you can turn to for emotional shelter, and quality time, and for a break from all the craziness that comes from trying to be an adult in these crazy times.

It also occurred to me while writing that response, that maybe, since I am still very much heartbroken by the aforementioned breakup, that maybe, as much as I want to be the CareGiver like I was to my ex as she was going through her Divorce, and Struggling with School, and the emotional toll of having to move back in with her mother...
Maybe because I am now the one that is heartbroken, I should be the one looking for an emotional/physical Caregiver. So, I am open to this possibility.

It's also possible that the reason why I feel drawn to a caregiver/daddy role, is because I have had a vasectomy, and I know I'll never have a daughter of my own... so perhaps I am looking for someone to be my girlfriend, and someone that I can think of as my "good little girl".

Ok, I'm just rambling at this point. I haven't been getting many positive responses on reddit... at this point, these posts are basically me musing at a wall for my own therapeutic relief.
Side-Side note: Don't worry, I have an actual therapist to bounce these ideas off of, I am not using reddit as a substitute lol).

Personality:
I'm extremely chill.
Imagine if Jeff Lebowski (The Big Lebowski) was combined with the geekiness of Kevin Flynn from Tron/Tron Legacy The humor of someone like Mitch Hedberg, Andy Richter, or Norm Macdonald.

Politically , I'm a leftist (I'm not a liberal, because I feel like "The Center" has been pulled so far right at this point, that anyone willing to "Reach Across the aisle" is just wasting their time, and falling for all the bad-faith arguments and scams that the Right is dragging them into).

Black Lives matter.
Gay/Trans Rights are Human Rights.
Healthcare is a human right.
Women deserve autonomy over their bodies.
The workers should control and profit from the means of production.
Religion has no place in politics.

I think that's enough writing for now.
I hope to hear from you.