Looking for:

a little/sub also in Europe, interested in a partnership/companionship for life who wants to voice chat regularly

I particularly have a soft spot for bubbly, playful girls who are inquisitive and like to explore possibilities and like to get very affectionate and intimate in a relationship. Being in it for the long-haul, wanting to truly let go not because they're scared/intimidated/forced to but because they admire the person they're with and it just feels right. Building up to be completely vulnerable, accepting and transparent with each other. That's important to me as I feel these serve as a core foundation for a long-term relationship and it's important we share those values. I'm not really looking for a kink only thing or even getting into anything like that before we get to know each other.

About me:

I don't find interests and tastes that important to base a connection on since they can be fluid and prone to change but we have to start somewhere right?

I graduated in computer science, like gaming, cooking, walks, meditation, anime, prefer documentaries over fiction. I tend to only catch myself realising how nerdy I seem to others when I casually mention stuff mid-conversation like oh, yeah I checked my sleep quality with my homemade EEG and got 3h of REM sleep last night or speak in a totally different accent or gender and their reaction is... what? lol  I enjoy deep conversations and prefer dialogues over debates. I'm a life long learner and love psychology and could spend time talking about the human mind for hours. Did you notice how we all have a different inner experience? For example I'm aphantasic and don't really see images in my mind but can remember songs vividly. What about you?

I'm always in the moment (I probably have SDAM, it's a fascinating memory condition, I don't re-experience the past all that often, so I always see you as you are!) and tend to give whoever I'm with my undivided attention. Sadly because of this mostly remember my own past experiences as facts or bullet points and so I'm not much of a nostalgic or reminiscing person, I'm pretty much trapped in the present moment.  This does make me very grounded and stable emotionally like a rock and down to earth. My head is usually pretty blank most of the time, so this could sound weird or unusual, but I tend to take a liking to the more crazy, chaotic, overly emotional, clumsy or talkative, stimulating people... opposites attract lol?

Some notes for littles:

• I think I would match better with littlespaces more on the older side, something like 6 to 14 . I've never really interacted much with preschoolers and young kids in my life and honestly might be pretty clueless as to what to do, especially if you are prone to be non-verbal. So if you'd like your daddy/caretaker to implicitly know what you want I might not be a good match. However if you are willing to fill me in on the details about your needs I'd be more than happy to engage with this aspect!

• Looking at posts here a lot of littles seem to really like strict daddies, I can be strict or be sharp tongued with you and set rules and stuff like that if you'd like but I'm no sadist or brat tamer, I'm more of a soft dom and I'd like those kinds of things to be imbued with some sort of bigger meaning, rather than punishing you for punishing's sake.

• Since we're likely to be in a LDR extensively (unless you have an EU passport making it possible for both of us to close distance more smoothly), please please please know how to take care of yourself physically! I can guide you and support you in any areas of difficulty like mental health, accountability, encourage you to eat better, hypnotize you etc, but there are limits in what I can do online and I cannot change you, I'm no replacement for a therapist. Please be mindful of this and be realistic with any fantasies, with that said, I'd like you to be comfortable to lean on me for just about anything and if any of this was compelling to you, start a chat!🌸

I'd appreciate if you wrote a small intro in your message:)