Finding a good sub that matches my energy and is everything I’m looking for is much like shouting into the void at times, but that’s not gonna stop me from looking. You’re well worth the search. Let’s see if we’re a good match?

About me!

I’m a 25 year old dom from Michigan! I’m a solid 5’11 on a good day, with an average build. Brown hair, blue-green eyes, wide shoulders and totally rocking that dad bod (but I’m working on it as we speak). I’m a capable and driven professional in STEM. Music is quite literally my life - I’ve played for most of my life, and I love belting out songs in the car. I’m a board and video gamer (primarily PC these days), a chronic tinkerer, seasonal outdoorsman, lifelong learner, hobby collector, and fluent in many different forms of nerd.

I’ve been a dom ever since I knew the label existed. I’ve been practicing for years now, with a variety of experiences in a variety of different dynamics, from the tame to the brat tamer. I've got a wide array of kinks, including orgasm denial/control, edging, marking, praise, petplay, pain and punishment, and plenty more. Plus, I'm always willing to try anything once. As a dom, my sub’s pleasure is first and foremost on my mind most times however I don’t mind getting a little more primal if the situation demands it. And with my pretty high libido, I definitely don’t mind getting into plenty of situations.

What I’m looking for!

Right now, someone to chat with and get to know that’s open to establishing a dynamic if the vibe’s there. Someone open to as-constant-as-we-can-manage communication of the text and voice variety. Someone who wants to do things together - play games, watch tv shows/movies, and whatever fun stuff we can find. I don’t expect submission right off the bat, it’s something that needs to be earned and I intend to do just that. I want a high enough level of trust that giving up control is done without a second thought. And I’ve learned that a connection outside of the dynamic makes the dynamic that much deeper.

I’m looking for someone to give all of this pent-up affection to. A friend (or more than friend) who can go from chill to kinky in the right moments. Like, one second we’re lightly roasting each other, then then next I’m pinning you down and reminding you who’s really in charge. I’m a huge fan of communication - I’ll never beat around the bush, and I would hope that you wouldn’t either. If you let me know how you feel, I can take that into consideration and make our time together that much better for us both. I’m dying for a long-term dynamic with someone, anywhere between exclusively in the bedroom or a more 24/7 arrangement, but I’m willing to put in the work to make that happen properly. In person is an option too, if we’re comfortable and logistically it can happen.

So if I sound like the perfect addition to your life, please send me a message! I can’t wait to get to know all of you - from what drives you to what drives you crazy.