Hello dear reader.
 

Deciding exactly how to compose a post... well, a good post, is not an easy decision. A lot of things need to be considered. First among them, respect for your time. While I would like to start with what I consider to be the most important, I will start with what I consider to be the most likely possible dealbreakers for you, so that you don't read through everything and perhaps get your hopes up, only to be disapointed at the end. So without further ado....
 
My main kink is control. This is what I get off on, and most of my other kinks revolve around it. I daresay it's not just a kink, but a core need of who I am. As my girl, you would belong to me. Mind, body and heart. Sexually, you would be my free use toy. Keep you full or empty, Aroused or turned off, overwhelmed with orgasms, or denied,in the middle of the day, or the middle of the night.... your body would be mine to toy with as i see fit. You would never again have any control on when and how your body is touched sexually, and you would never again have an orgasm on your whim.
 
Now... if you're still reading, and you feel a glimmer of excitement rather than dread, welcome to the part where I tell you more about who I am beyond the sexy bits. At heart, I'm a caretaker and a protector. Nothing makes me happier than taking care of my girl, and being the sun that warms her up and helps her grow into the beautiful amaziing flower that she is. From a silent tender hug, to emotional support or helping her with computer problems, or organizing every aspect of her life, I will do everything in my power to take care of that which is precious to me. I offer structure and stability. I will always be there for you, I will guide you and encourage you. You will always have a chest to lie on, a ear to listen to you, a heart to care for you, and a man you can lean on, and rely on. I will help you enjoy your kinks and if desired explore new ones, while keeping a safety net underneath you at all times. In short... I take care of what is mine. So when you become my girl, you gain a protector, lover, confidant and teacher.

 
My hobbies are reading (fantasy, magic, shapeshifters, young adult), PC gaming (primarily survival games, MMOs), VR, tabletop gaming (DnD 5e in particular) and spending time with my girl, be it playing together, watching a movie together, or just listening her sleep and guarding her dreams. I want not just a good little bitch in heat to use and care for, but also someone with whom I can spend time with and enjoy each other's company outside of kink, particularly in playing PC games together.  

Please note that I live in Europe my free time is usually in the evening, though depending on the way, I am able to chat while at work as well. Thus, I ask that you live in aEuropean timezone as well, or have a daily schedule compatible with european timezones as nothing sucks more than to be great for each other, but never find the time to be together.  
I will never ask you to do something that would leave a lasting mark, risk outing you, hurt your social, academic, or professional life or your health. Blood, knife, needle play are also hard nos for me.
 
And last but not least... I want to clarify that I'm looking for something long term with possibility of irl and forever if we really match. I don't want just a sex toy to fuck, but a girl to love. A girl in whom I will invest, a girl I'll take of in every way, a girl that I'll make happy and help to be the best version of herself that she can be, and know that she trusts me implicitly, will tell me everything, and will curl up at my chest seeking, warmth, safety, and surrendering both her heart and her body to me unconditionally, to use and cherish.
 
If you reached this point and feel the spark of something, or simply wish to ask a question, please feel free to write, and we can talk more.

Thank you for reading my post and if it's not what you're looking for, I wish you the best of luck in finding that which you seek.