Hello! I've been thinking a lot about how alluring gentle domination can be and how little of it I see offered. I've always been very confident in knowing that this is the lane that I best fit into. I prefer to take what I would consider as more of a feminine approach to domination, like nurturing and encouragement and quite emotional. I'm a big softie and do best with other softies. I am still however stern in the areas where I uphold my beliefs and as a protector. I will keep it trill with you, my experience in CGL and Kink in general thus far has been overtly difficult, because I am not a flashy and braggadocios type of dom. I definitely think that people like to take kindness for weakness in kinkspace. I am not here to do that and I can also tell someone's intentions pretty quickly. I'm very open minded, welcoming and non-judgmental, but I need to feel a sense of balance in knowing that my little is living for me, too. I imagine it can feel incredibly similar in your shoes, if you feel like your Daddy is not living for you too, but instead just thriving off of what you have to offer.

All of that being said, I do know what I want in life. My own personal journey has led me to starting over in life, and I have been making great changes that I am proud of. I am a romance based dom, who thinks first and foremost about daydreams of a partner, being each other's world (healthily), and supporting each other's own dreams and ambitions while also combining our mutual goal and essentially creating a family dynamic. I don't have a lot of people in my life, and I never really have. I grew up being the quiet kid and was very shy until I changed careers to Healthcare last year, as well as got into kinkspace and did a lot of self discovery.

I'm a demisexual, and I'm very kink friendly. I don't like to list them because I feel like it can be very limiting to do so. But just know that I don't kinkshame, and I can be a bit of a pleasure Dom who loves to explore my own Little/Sub's kinks. Speaking of being demisexual, one of the things that matters most to me these days is simply how our energies combine. That could look something like balancing each other out, or being so similar that we operate more like twinflames, but I search mostly for someone who can stimulate me mentally and emotionally, and that I do the same for her. I love when we can't stop talking because we just have so much learning to do with each other. I tend to get along really well with bubbly curious types, for this reason. If you're someone who is overtly shy and shortwinded in response, I probably won't bring much more out of you because I'm naturally similar to that way. Someone who has an overactive mind and needs a dom that can calm them down would probably work better for me. I just ask that you know the difference between opening up to your dom and trauma dumping on them. It can be really nerve racking to play therapist with strangers. I will be saving that version of myself for when I am officially partners with someone. It's just a matter of us all only having so much energy in this vetting process, but do know that I will always be willing to be a listener and do genuinely care about your emotions.

P.S. Don't take my boundaries paragraph^ as negativity or a reason not to reach out. I just want to be sure to set us up for success and to be clear. I always try to practice openness and transparency.

I could talk a lot more about CGL and about the fact that I've never officially had a Little who was truly mine, but I'd prefer to do that while getting to know you and your own personal story. I'm from the Southern Midwest US and would prefer that you be from the US for distance and timezone reasons. If you have any questions or would simply like to get to know each other, I look forward to hearing from you.