So at least wear something warm!🧣

Howdy howdy, my name's Jess, and welcome to my wall of words. I'm a fairly experienced caregiver with an open mind, a mix of talents and skills, a passion for patience, and a f i e r c e, observant personality ✨ And yes I bite.

I'm looking to meet someone that's within two years of my age, and lives anywhere in the US. Ideally, this silly someone likes to be chatty (a lot), and doesn't mind a mix of grump and goofy from their dom ;P I consider myself long term oriented, and strictly monogamous. Even if you're far from head patting range, I'm happy to make long distance work for that special someone; and yes, I'd be happy to make visits happen :>

While I can't say I have a specific preference of body types, or any types for that matter; What is crucial to being attracted to my partner, is seeing that they make efforts to care of their physical/mental health :>

Another important thing I consider is how kink heavy my partner is. I'm big on being controlling, disciplining, and as overbearing as possible on my littles/subs. I feel like I can successfully do these things in both a gentle way (time outs, instructive schedules, lots of questioning, firm talk to's), and a rough way (using pet play, impact play, and small forms of humiliation). I understand this may not be everyone's thing, or even the entirety of what they enjoy; But I felt it's important to express this upfront, since I enjoy it very much.

Now here's some fun facts about me! I live in San Diego, I work full time doing stuff (the worst), I like to read, write, watch TV/Anime, and occasionally play PC games. I also have flamboyant outbursts that I have no intention of ever controlling. Oh, and I also love to cuss, and my humor can be dry, dark, and bitter . W .

Curious about my looks? Try to picture this; I have dark, chin length curly hair. I am giraffe length, usually have light stubble, or clean shaven with shadow, and am pretty chubby. I have a tattoo on my right bicep, and a septum piercing (with plans to get more of both). Those are pretty much my physical highlights. Alternatively, you could just snoop through my profile and look through my selfies ;P

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As a parting note, I feel it's worth mentioning that I'm not looking for a 24/7 dynamic. While I can see myself spending lots of time looking at, and picking out fun "little stuff" to do with you, I'm just as interested in getting along with big you too ʕ •ᴥ•ʔ

Please behave, and enjoy your coming turkey days! 🖤