Hey hope you having a lovely day!

I guess I'll start with what I'm looking for but I'm sure you'll message me if you're interested in anything I have to say. Just looking for a potential relationship that doesn't move too fast, I like to get to know someone and hang out with them first. I am a switch but I am like 99.9% big/dom so I can live without being a little/sub. I'd definitely describe myself as much more of a soft dom I'm not one to give out punishments or rules but I am open to it if that is something you're interested in! I think I'm looking for more of a vanilla style relationship rather than a 24/7 dynamic. I have had 3 relationships already that have all involved some level of ABDL and DDLG so I have plenty of experience.

Hobbies wise I am super passionate about graphic design and illustration but I also enjoy playing video games, anything anime related (especially retro anime), and TV/movies. However that doesn't mean I'm not outdoorsy I love to go out on walks or go to new places! I'll leave this bit more blank cause I imagine we'll find out more about each other through DM's or something? I am really open to trying new things out and want to broaden my horizons so I would love to hear about anything you're passionate about!

Physically speaking I have blondish brown hair, blue/green eyes, relatively slim I'm about 12st 10lbs standing at 5'11 with slight muscle on my arms and lots of muscle on my legs - I used to be quite big but I worked super duper hard and lost about 4 and a half stone in a year! I don't mind swapping pictures with ya once we get to know each other and maybe move outside of Reddit DM's! Personality wise I would describe myself as funny, creative and a bit q u i r k y I really hate that word but it is ACCURATE - personality type is ENFJ if that's any help. I am apolitical (liberal leaning) and Agnostic I tend not to like being particularly outspoken but I respect people who are passionate about human rights.

In terms of what I am looking for. I would love someone who is into working out cause I'd love a workout buddy and if I am being honest I want someone who is not on the chubbier side as I am not particularly attracted to that particular body type I hope that doesn't come across as mean or cruel cause I just want to be honest. I'd love to meet someone who has hobbies especially if its art or music related or you love watching anime! If you wear glasses thats a big plus for me I think everyone looks better in glasses fr. I hope I don't sound horrible but I am only looking for biological female people, I love my LGBTQ peeps but I am just not attracted to transfolk. I am completely fine with any sexual orientation though (including poly) other than Asexual as I am not Ace.

My kink's are pretty conventional for this subreddit, DDLG, ABDL stuff (not too heavy just diapers and pacis really???) and some light bondage stuff. I am really open to exploring more and even if we don't link up kink wise but maybe link up personality and interest wise still hit me up :)

I'd like to progress with this stuff slowly so I would like to message at first but I love to call and chat on discord once I get to know someone better! And of course I would love to meet up IRL at some point too!

I'll leave ya with a few conversation starters if you'd like to answer them or you can think of something yourself:

What's a hobby or interest you've always wanted to get in to but haven't had the chance?

What's a show you'd love to completely forget and rewatch over fresh?

Have you ever been involved in something notable that people know of or know someone who has?

Have a real cool rest of your day! Looking forward to hearing from some of ya soon hopefully!