Hey there! You've probably seen one of my posts here before, but for those of you who haven't: hi! My name is Ben, and it's nice to meet you.

As you can see by the title, I'm 21 and from the UK, searching for a little. Well, more than that, I'm looking for something meaningful! Not just for fun but for someone who wants to be part of my life.

I will say I am a very sexual person - I won’t sugarcoat it - but I do enjoy being a caregiver, too! I take it seriously, and it needs to be something enjoyable and safe for everyone involved. I understand the important parts of being a caregiver, not just fun and punishments, but for safety and discussions of boundaries, limits, and rules. Although punishments are important, it's even more important to establish a safeword.

Now, if this post stands out to you, it's probably because of the part where I mentioned I'm extremely clingy!

That's not an understatement, I am very clingy, but I don't think it's a bad thing!

I know that for some people it can be too much, and that's fine. Everybody is different and has different tastes, so if I'm not for you, that's okay!

About me:

To get the not-so-fun stuff out of the way:

I do struggle with anxiety and depression. I won't go into why, but you should know I can be extremely socially awkward, and I struggle with certain situations. For example, I find it hard to tell when someone is serious or joking or sarcastic. I'm also very apologetic, I tend to apologise a lot mainly because in social situations I just say the first thing that pops into my head without thinking and I might upset, offend or even anger you without meaning to. Upsetting you is the last thing I'd want, and I don't do it on purpose, but I figured I'd warn you.

Now for the cool bits!

I could tell you everything about me here, but that's boring, and I’m not gonna give you an autobiography when we could just have an actual conversation. That being said, here are some of my basic interests:

I am a gamer. Mainly, I play on xbox since I don't have a PC (yet anyway!)

I am a weeb who likes anime!

I am a huge simp for whoever my partner is, lol!

I have an interest in all things supernatural and paranormal!

I’m also interested in witchcraft, I even have some tools and a few books.

I love music of a pretty wide variety, and my taste changes all the time. I can listen to one song endlessly, then it will start to annoy me, before I find something new I like!

That's all really - I’d love to get to know you and just see if we click, so please send me a message! I look forward to getting to know you.

Oh, and this person might not see this, but I wanted to thank thebigbadbun for making this post much easier to read they didn't have to, but they did anyway, so much appreciated.