Experienced in the ddlg/cgl/bdsm lifestyle, but it has been a few years since my last serious/long-term relationship. I am seeking something on-going and hopefully permanent.

About me... I'm 32 and fairly "alternative" for someone my age.. as in tattoos and facial/body piercings. Bald-headeded lol but I've got a nice long cuddly beard. Tall-ish, like 6 feet even. Not sharing photos right off the bat, but I don't think you'd be disappointed by my appearance. I do take care of myself and my appearance.

So, why I'm here... I am in a professional career that requires me to travel a lot... I'm away from home about half of the year... I work in architecture and engineering, specializing in old historical buildings. So, lots of haunted old places (Lover of all things spooky). But, I have very little home time.

I'm not looking for anything explicitly sexual... I need more than the physical. My position would be more of a mentor and someone to confide in. I guess a "soft" daddy. I want to provide structure and help you achieve goals. You must be okay with a strict schedule and structure. I have expectations and will keep you in line with rewards and punishments.

I want to help you grow while still keeping you smol and wonderful. You can always vent to me about your big girl troubles, but I also want to help your little side grow. There's nothing I love more than seeing your pretty drawings for Dada and telling you night night stories.

This doesn't mean we can't still have naughty playtime ;~) It's just not my singular focus... I want to get to know you and build a strong bond before jumping into anything explicit.

I am looking for a middle, but littles are also perfectly okay. I'm comfortable with a wide range of kinks, including pet play, adbl, and more. Your real age would ideally be younger than me. Thanks for reading if you made it this far. My messages are open if you'd like to chat :~)