I'm a daddy experienced with the ddlg dynamic looking for a kinky baby girl / little / however you choose to identify. I've said in the past that I am not quite looking for a relationship, but I want to amend that slightly to say I would in fact prefer a relationship, but preferably with someone open to group sex and a dynamic akin to swinging. So "monogam-ish" – not quiet poly, but not monogamous either.
About me: recent graduate school graduate, philosophy nerd. 6'2", slender, broad shoulders and big arms, long wavy hair that falls over my ears, glasses, bushy mustache, tattoos. I love coffee, hot sauce, science fiction, and buying too many books.

I've always kind of seen myself as a gentle giant–I am a fairly taciturn, cerebral person, who enjoys making other people feel good. I love the idea of taking care of someone, whether emotionally, or physically. I want to be someone who can be there for you when you're feeling down, or you are just excited about something. I want to praise you for doing a good job, and just encourage you to keep going, to do more, to do better. I want to be your biggest fan and cheerleader and in turn, have you feel devoted to me and feel a need to satisfy me or make me happy or feel good.

While I would still like us to bond emotionally, and really get to know each other, the sex component is essential to what I am after. Sexual compatibility is just as important as emotional for me. I would prefer we discuss our sexual interests and expectations soon after we're connecting to make sure we're not wasting each other's time.

Important for me to establish too that while I will respect a desire not to rush anything, I'm not looking for something that evolves over the course of weeks or months. I want us to build trust, but I'm not comfortable spending too much time talking with someone only to find out later on we aren't attracted to each other or we don't have similar emotional or sexual expectations.

I want to be able to foster a space of trust where you feel safe to share more about yourself with me. I know that doesn't happy right off the bat, but I will do my best to make you feel at ease, so that we can both have a fulfilling experience, however it takes shape. More than anything, I just want someone who has a certain set of desires or needs to be met, and I want to help fulfill them without shame or inhibition. Everyone deserves to have an adequate sex life that makes them happy and feel confident about themselves. Let me do my best to give that to you.

Message me and we can discuss more details!